My husband get's frustrated if he doesn't have sex daily I don't need to I am fine with 1-2 a week. His frustration is a turn off any suggestions
2007-03-20 10:10:10 · 15 answers · asked by MiZZ707 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to tell him this:
honey, i love you so much and i want you to be happy as much as i want to be happy too. i dont want us to argue and fight over this each night. i dont want you to get frustrated just becus i dont feell like having sex. that doesnt mean i dont love you. that just means im tired or im not in the mood. please understand that im a woman. and our hormones are not as high as mens are. so if you feel like having sex each night, we might not. you need to relax a little. lets make move everyother night. if you have sex with me each night then by the time im 50 ill be all torn up and used. please understand me.
if that doesnt work then make him work around the house befor bed and that will make him tired.
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2007-03-20 10:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men want sex daily. It's normal. Try to find ways to increase your own sex drive, like take a libido supplement. You can buy them at most health food stores in the vitamin section. Compromise and have it five times a week instead of every day or just once or twice. Make love to him when you are having sex with him and it will be more enjoyable to you both. Look him in the eyes as much as possible. I wish I could see my BF every day and have sex with him everyday! Lucky you!
2007-03-20 10:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there are a lot of frustrated women out there who would gladly trade places with you. But like Cheyenne said, if you get too demanding, he may grow tired. Keep him "down there" longer than he really wants, and that may just put you in the mood. It always works for me.
2007-03-20 10:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Candice B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to him....sorry. I'm the same as you, I could go w/ just a few times a month, but my man likes it WAY more often. Take one for the team, sister - it'll save you both headaches!
2007-03-20 10:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married in the first place if you are not going to put out ?
Ladise this is the real reason that men cheat. If you are not going to honor your husbands at home than we are going other places to get satisfied.
2007-03-20 10:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a given and take, I bet your in your 20's. when you hit your 30's it will go the other way. So it is best to try and find a balance. The give and take will go on as long as you are together, and always will.
2007-03-20 10:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give into him. Even if you dont want to, when he gets going, Im sure you'll get in the mood too. Good luck
2007-03-20 10:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dam the woman i lived with it was months and even that was to much for her! that's way we are no longer togetther! try to help him some how! since us males seem to want it daily. in the morning manly
2007-03-20 10:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by tommoore66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the man what he wants and do it gladly with as much passion as you can. Thank God for a man that wants and desires you.
2007-03-20 10:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As often as they AS A COUPLE want.
2007-03-20 10:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋