I dreamt that my co worker was in bed with my boyfriend
2007-03-20 09:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by geneva g 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Geneva, the dream doesn't mean there's any real cause for concern that this could happen. But it DOES mean that your boyfriend's behavior has given subtle hints that MAYBE he's capable of seeing others or being less than 100% committed to your relationship.
It’s helpful to keep in mind why and how we dream. When we sleep, the body and perception systems are shut down, but the brain stem continues to fire and the cortex remains active. The thoughts that have been most active during waking hours—perceptions, experiences, thoughts and feelings, processed consciously or unconsciously—are still “peaked” and they associate with other images already linked in your cortex. In other words, the brain references this content, but not in a rational way, not using input from the external real world as in waking hours. So the story connectedness isn’t like everyday experience, but rather a strange flow from one image to the next. Therefore, dreams aren’t magical messages to guide our life, but sequences of associated images taken from everyday experiences - thoughts and feelings that matter a lot to us during our waking life. So it’s a mistake to apply one-size-fits-all symbols, such as Freudian meanings or standard “dreammoods” formulas. All you need to do is think about what kind of imagery it is and how it relates to your daily life.
So you've been feeling concerns about your relationship - consciously or unconciously - and these concerns remained active when you went to sleep, and the feelings associated with the imagery in the dream sequence. Don't do anything drastic, but if I were you I would pay attention to what you see, what you feel, and what your guts tell you.
2007-03-20 09:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that dream means you have a lack of thrust for your boyfriend. You may need to think about some instances in your relationship where you had moments where you needed to question your boyfriend's dedication to you? Or atleast you jealous sensation? Think abotu it! Maybe you have a fantasy about what it would be like if your boyfriend and that co-worker and you had a love triangle. Women have fantasies like that too, not only men. It's ok if you want to fantasize about it and see if it is in fact that That is if it is really that?
Or it could of just been a weird dream. So don't worry we all have them.
2007-03-20 16:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Time For Better 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps there will be cheating involve. Some unexpected things will happen between your co-worker and your bf
2007-03-20 16:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means you are ambivalent about your relationship. You've had thoughts of cheating yourself, but you feel guilty about it so you project these feelings onto your boyfriend.
2007-03-20 16:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by peter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dream isn't always meant to be taken seriously.
If you trust your boyfriend and coworker then don't worry.
2007-03-20 16:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means you are insecure in your relationship with this BF.
2007-03-20 17:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it just shows your fear about it ; but i think you are the only one who can reveal what is the meaning
2007-03-20 16:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Theta40 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
Dreams don't mean anything.
You're just being paranoid.
2007-03-20 17:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by sleepy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-20 16:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋