what should i do this is a lil embaressing?

Question

my girlfriend and i have been going out for a long time now and i kinda wontet to do something with here but...im emberesst about my size im only 14 should i just do it or what? i dont know if she will think im small or not

wow ya keep puting me down for my spelling i was in a hurry like i am now i dont care abot my spelling i just needed i bit of help man!

Answer 1

Don't worry about your dick size.
Unless she is a porn queen, it will be fine.
Are you ready to be a daddy?
If not, then you need to take care of things and wrap it up!


PS... try spell check.

Answer 2

Hey, junior,
Your hands reach to your penis for a reason. You are WAY too young to be having sex with anyone except your right and left hands (either both or the hand of your preference). Sex feels great, that's for sure. But there's a lot of emotional maturity and, potentially, financial responsibility that comes with it. Slow down, tiger. When the time is right, it won't matter if you're two inches long or ten. And the time isn't right until you're able to deal with what comes afterward.

I'm not going to sit here and say Thou Must Wait Until After Marriage. That's not realistic, in this day and age or in any other. But Thou Should Wait Until Thou is Able to Show Some Skills That Will Enable Thou to Support Any Child that Happens to Result from Sex. That includes showing enough spelling skills to convince an employer to hire you for a job that pays enough to support you and a child.

Answer 3

My advice to you is to wait till your just a little bit older before you go making babies. You might think your protected and that you might think you might know alot but just to get to the point, untill you raise a baby and support it till it reaches 18 you dont know ****. Guess what I thought I was using protection properly too and I was 18 little did I know I wasnt well I have 1 and a half more years then my son is 18 and the child support stop unless he is still in school. Thats right I've been paying child support for almost 17 years now. 100.00 a week just on one child. My best advise is keep it in your pants. You got a hand if you feel your balls are about to explode use it!

Answer 4

if she loves you she shouldn't care about your size. men always worry about their size when most of them are just normal. when you're peeing in the bathroom and take a quick glance over at the guy beside you, you feel inferior to them. but that's because penises look bigger from the side than from the top. so chill out. i'm sure your size is fine. 6 inches is average. but all a woman needs is 3 or 4. the pleasure neurons are only in the first 1/3 of the vagina. so 3-4 inches (hard) is all that's needed to please her. plus, most women can't orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. you need to read up on clitoral stimulation to help her orgasm better. and don't worry about not getting her off the first few times. it will take a few tries to learn her body, the way she likes being touched and carressed, and what gets her off. it it takes too long then have her help you and show you what she likes.

as for your age....you're a little young to be having sex. i'm not gonna tell you not to have sex though. just make sure you and your girlfriend are both on the same page when it comes to the consequences of having sex. will this be both of your first times? what happens if she gets pregnant? will you stay together and raise the baby? give it up for adoption? have her parents sign for an abortion? will sex change your relationship? will it make things akward? how long is a "long time" that you've been going out? a few months? a year? talk to her about what kinds of birth control you'll use. see if she's willing to go on the pill. and make sure YOU WEAR A CONDOM. just make sure you're both ready for this. don't force her, and don't let her force you. tell her you're young and it's not at it's maximum size yet, if you wish. make sure you both want to do this for yourselves instead of because only one of you want to or peer pressure from friends. sex is a big step and it's not something to treat lightly. maybe before you actually have sex you should fool around a little. manually stimulate each other, dry hump, have oral sex, just get used to seeing each other naked before you stick it in her. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck and Happy Humping!

Answer 5

You need to keep it in your pants for some time to come. If you are only thinking about your size and not the rest of the problems that come with sex at such an early age, you are far too immature for it.

I suggest you wait at least a few more years until you are old enough and mature enough to be ready for it.

Also, if you can't figure out how to use a dictionary or spellcheck, you are too young for sex.

Size matters nothing when you think about sex. What about birth control? STDs? What about what your girlfriend wants? You need to start thinking with the head above your shoulders...not with the one below your waist.

Answer 6

I can only agree with most of the others,I would wait a bit but then,I am not you.An old saying but very true"you can't put an old head on young shoulders.As i know your package size will increase,I hope also that your spelling improves,not a criticism but a hope.

Answer 7

You should wait a few more years. You'll know more of what to do. But since now a days, the younger ones are having intercourse sooner than ever, if you do it, just mention it to her first. Say I'm a little embarrassed about my size. But you're still maturing, so it'll grow a bit more. Make sure you wear a condom!! Make sure she wants to do it also, don't pressure her! And just in case you don't know this, when you're not aroused/horny, it's going to be small. lol. But really, you should wait. Remember this. :)

Answer 8

There's lots of things you should think about in whether to have sex with your girlfriend, but your size -- and I assume here you're talking about your penis size -- shouldn't be one of them. First off, she obviously knows that you're young and growing. Second, unless she's more experienced than you are, she doesn't have a lot to compare to. Third, it's not a big focus for girls. She cares about whether you are going to stick with her after you've had sex, not how big your unit is.

Whatever you decide, if you're going to have anything more than oral sex, you should use a condom. You may worry you're small, but you're almost certainly big enough to get a girl pregnant.

Answer 9

If you are only 14, you are still a child and should not indulge in sexual activities until you are ready to assume the responsibilities such activities warrant, such as supporting a child that may result from such a union. You need to grow up in more ways than one!!

Chow!!

Answer 10

The correct answer is, keep it locked up for awhile. At least another year or two. In two years it's gonna grow and then you won't have to worry about its size.

Think about if you get this girl pregnant. Then the rest of your life is ruined. BE WISE, you have a whole life ahead of you.

Paramedic in SC

Answer 11

ur 14 and probably have a 4.5 - 5.5 in penis. if ur worried wait until ur 16 and ull have a 7.5 - whatever legnth it grows 2 penis. just wait until ur married and itll be then best feeling u ever had. better then ur left and right.