Bluntly, I’ve never been able get play like most people do. I wish I could because women are so beautiful. Getting laid by a hot girl would be so great, it’s beyond comprehension to me. My constant desire for play bothers me because it's never met. It’s like being hot and bothered 24-7. It gets to the point I don’t want to even look at women because of the constant reminder of being unable to attain the amazing experience. It’s also hard knowing most do attain it. You see gorgeous people everyday, so it’s like a constant reminder. The feeling of missing out in such a situation, that masturbation can't compare to, makes me depressed. I know it’s weird, I want to enjoy looking at good looking women, and I should, but I don’t. I don’t want to look at a cake I can’t eat while starving. I find my self wishing these normal desires would stop. It gets to be tough when dealing with it everyday. I wish this wasn't a problem, especially that it's god's gift. Is this absurd or normal?
2007-03-20 09:33:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have a friend like this, actually. I don't think it's absurd, but I do think that you should seek outside help if it gets too uncontrollable.
And just so you know, sex is NOT what the media makes it out to be. I think if you focus more on the relationship aspect of things, you'll be much more satisfied in the end.
2007-03-20 09:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by x0adalia0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i don't know what to say, but what i do know is that life is screwed up. Sometimes you want something really badly and you never get it. Kinda like the idea that i have always wanted a boyfirend or friends and i have never gotten any. In the end you should look at what you do have, not what you can't have. I do it all the time.
You have friends right?
You meet girls with wonderful personalities, right?
So why does she have to be hot like tyra? Why can't she be just a regualr girl? Why are you men all like this?
These are the questions you should ask. Also try to enhance your self esteem, this could be part of the reason you feel this way.
2007-03-20 21:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Time For Better 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋