we have sex once maybe twice a week, hes been like this since we've been together 6 years but latetly i want more thank that, at least once a day or any other day.....is that normal? please help
2007-03-20 09:29:43 · 15 answers · asked by KARLA M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
look for the problem - 1.) does he work too much - sometimes when we are too tierd we just want to lay back and rest or go to sleep that might be a broblem. If so give him vitamins and make sure he eats good and then get him horny and he should have no problem finishing the rest.
2.) talk to him about it and try to find a solution- there are pills he can drink to have his system running more than usual
3.) always try to look good and sexy for him especial ly at home - try playing with him and so on.....
4.) try different positions and different ways of doing things - read books, by movies and stuff that educate you on enjoying and having better sex
5.) Teach him - the things that you want him to do to you. how to kiss you, hold you and so on.
6.) show your emotion - when your doing it show how much you enjoy it; if you want to scream than scream
7.) give him complements - tell him how good he makes you feel and how wonder full he is
8.) if he still has problems take him to see a doctor and make sure there is nothing wrong with him
good luck
2007-03-20 09:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ed76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a way higher sex drive than my husband - & unfortunately it sucked. A few times I slipped him those nitro pills from 7/11 that are supposed to improve sex drive - they did work- but only temporary. It basically was a constant battle. I had to just tell him I wanted more, he agreed he wanted more too, but was complaining that he was exhausted. We were both working 2 jobs and time was hard. But the one thing I had to teach him, that wasn't easy, but definitely helped is to explain that it didn't always have to be a 2 hr ordeal that sometimes 10 min. is good too. That seems to be something that all men don't understand. At least from my experience they seem to think that it has to be a big production where occasionally - a couple minutes is a good compromise.
2007-03-20 16:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by stepss1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Whitney. Men do seem very visually oriented. Their jealous bones can also work to your favor. Casually mention how some guy at the grocery store was chatting you up. Or a different guy at the car wash wanted your telephone number. Do this while sitting carelessly in a pair of loose shorts, or while leaning over in a low cut blouse without your bra. He'll get the message. My husband always does.
2007-03-20 18:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Candice B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as normal, there is only normal for you. once a day is what you want. he does not. being uncompatible sexually is a common problem. i will tell you how to get it every day. email him, txt him, dirty little notes. ask him about fantasies and play them out. role playing is great. buy some wigs and some toys. and remember men are visual creatures, put on the sexy thongs, the white tank tops with no bra, etc and casually do sexy things in front of him without it being obvious you are seducing him and he'll get the message. also try adding maca as a supplement and he'll jump you everyday.
2007-03-20 16:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely true that we women always want more sex. I went through the same thing. But you really have to know your man because I found out that he doesn't want to have sex with me because he has already looked at porn (or is going to) on the internet. SO be careful because this really sucks.
2007-03-20 16:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by luvmrtnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for us women as we grow to want more sex and I know that for my husband the older he gets the less he wants. We aren't even 30 yet!!! I don't know why but I do know that there are many other relationships that have this same problem!! If you find out the problem please share!!
2007-03-20 16:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by r_fazenbaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal for who? You can't compare your sex drive with anyone else. Yours is just extremely high right now, talk with your husband about it, and try to come to a compromise.
You go girl:)
2007-03-20 16:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by angelsncali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try more foreplay lots of foreplay maybe that's what he needs sometimes when a men lets go he don't know what to do afterwords like he is lost and the partners can feel it so it all falls apart from there so if he lets go fast try to touch and kiss before u all go for it.
2007-03-20 17:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 30 and am constantly pounding my wifes pussy into oblivion. I cannot get enough. Lets talk. My yahoo messenger screenname is brockwell009. Hit me up.
2007-03-20 16:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. Just get some toys and let your fingers do the experimenting.
2007-03-20 16:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋