if your boyfriend confessed to having bumped into someone he didnt even know and spend a night with her, would you ditch him or give him asecond chance?
2007-03-20 09:26:54 · 17 answers · asked by cnyagaya 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Not worth your time. LEAVE HIM.
2007-03-20 09:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by yumsorbet 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hiya, so sorry that this has had to happened to you, you deserve better darling, cheated the once, he'll do it again. to dump him the better thanmaking you look like an fool. If you are very forgiven well then you'll have to accept thats the way he's playing you. Why don't you take a break from him, and think about if you really want to be messed about or you deserve some respect. I wish you luck and remember you will find someone who would love you for who you are and some respect.
2007-03-20 09:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, I'm talking from a guy's perspective.
There are reasons that some guys cheat. Some justifies it, some don't
Lets start with the justifications:
1- you are ugly and or fat.
fat women and ugly women are disrespecting thier boyfriend by bieng fat and/or ugly and need to fix it through diet and excercise or plastic surgery.
This is a justification for the woman too.
2- You don't put out.
If you don't have sex enough, then that is your fault as he isn't getting what he needs. We need *****. We are men. quite simply if you don't meet those needs, we will find someone that will.
3- other- a series of incidences that are just like a "catchall" where you are "in a coma", etc.
Non-justifications:
basically everything else. If it is not justified, then he is an *** and you should dump him.
2007-03-20 09:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The word cheating makes it sound like a game, and you have been caught out. But who makes the rules of this game? I think so called cheating is normal for a boy. I would be grateful that he is normal.
2007-03-20 12:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG yes. Most likely he will do it over again because he's done it before and if you forgive him, he will most likely take advantage of your forgivenss just like he took advantage of the situation with the other girl. If my boyfriend did that to me, I would rid him like poison in my blood. He will weaken you if you let it pass.
Think of it as benifit to human kind in making sure you don't breed with boys like Bluto up there. Don't make the same mistake his mother did.
2007-03-20 09:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by charming_imogen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, if he did it with a stranger then what is stopping him from doing it with somebody they know? Do you really want to be in bed with him knowing that not too long ago his penis was in some other woman's vagina? Disgusting.
2007-03-20 09:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by cynical 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bloke here, hes testin, if ya let him off he's off the leash and will do it again, dump him sounds like an oil tanker find ya self someone good
2007-03-20 09:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by greeny1823 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there done that and I totally ditched him...if he does it once he will surely do it again.
2007-03-20 09:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by MichiganRocks 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him, you're worth much more than that.
2007-03-20 09:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by china doll 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bye bye.. see ya later.... get the heck out...... you suck and you are not worhty of me,,,,
these are some great things that you can say as you kick his butt to the crub
2007-03-20 09:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋