i have mind blowing orgasms when i use a vibrator or when i finger.but i dont have that kind of powerful orgasms with my husband....when we make love, i have very light orgams compared to the ones i have it with a vibrator....does anyone has the same problem?? how can i have mind blowing orgasms with my husband??
2007-03-20 09:09:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Alot of women have this problem because we know where it feels good and what pressure to apply etc, and unfortunately our partners cannot know this without our help! If you are orgasming with your husband thats a great start as many women dont orgasm through intercourse at all! Have an experimentation night with your husband and tell each other exactly what feels right for each other, and show each other! And also encourage him when he is doing something right! Tell him that is really nice and he will be more encouraged to do it again!
Also try experimenting with toys with ur husband. Try vibrating rings that fit over the penis, or a small vibrator to stimulate ur clitoris while you have intercourse with ur husband! It all really works!
Good Luck!
2007-03-21 02:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by vickyvixen84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause we now exactly where that magnificent spot is. However, if you gently grab your husbands hips and kind of guide him he will have no clue as to what you are doing. He may even think that what your are doing is a bit exciting, but it is like driving you have to steer the car to get it were you want it to go. Sorry guys no offense.
2007-03-20 16:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having them the same day you are mkaing love with your husband they might not be as extreme because you've already have them and maybe hes just not living up to your expectations or your not in a good mood. Try outfits or roleplay light candels and set the mood to however you want it. good luck!
2007-03-20 16:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by anne s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a durex vibrating ring that they sell next to the condoms at just about any store....its awesome!!
2007-03-20 16:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋