do you think this is ok?

Question

do you thinkit's ok that nearly all women have a preference for boys who look like they're still in high school? you know it's true, so don't deny it. and i have proof...

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aig30_ZfrIPMj9P7yzl84Evsy6IX?qid=20070320120806AArbItq

'if someone is over the legal age limit, and if it's consensual, I'm not sure what the problem is.'

are you saying it is ok for women to want sexual relations with guys who are old enough to be their children, but only if they are over 18? that's truly disgusting. if women don't learn to be attracted to men, they will naturally go for boys.

'It seems that there are FAR more men who are attracted to young girls. DO you think it's OK?'

actually, THAT is the false stereotype. i am 18 and i'm already turned of by high school girls. and most experienced men say the sexiest age group is women in their 30s. and not to mention if a guy shows interest in underage girls, other guys naturally feel like punching him out. they call him a pedophile. but the same isn't true for women.

for Kimberely: you'll be surprised to know that you are a minority. most women are disgusted by hairy chests and love the feminine(i personally see i is young-boyish) look. for some reason there are more women like you on yahoo answers. when i did surveys on myspace, pretty much all of them had that type of preference.

Answer 1

I think the older women who do this want a man they can control. I think they are petaphiles and they may be childlike themselves. Most male petaphiles don't understand that their child cannot have an adult like relationship with them, or they think that they can. Most of these women try it because most women do not face alot of jail time, one women was said to be too pretty to go to jail. Women may not have equal rights as men, but when it comes to petaphilia, they get a way with a lot of stuff.

Answer 2

You should study a bit more, you know, it would help you read answers properly. Most answers said that they preferred people their age (maybe from 2 years younger to, let's say, 5 years older).

I personally said that, yes, it's flatterring because it's just an ego-boost: I mean, it means your body is not sagging too much. That's pretty much what other people have said. But younger boys are cute, that's all. Too young! Wouldn't want to have sex with them!

Of course, some women wouldn't care. But is that the norm? I don't think so, far from it.

It's the third time you're asking that question, actually. Just because we haven't given you the answer you were expecting doesn't mean it's going to change if you repeat it again, you know!

And just because some women don't like hairy chest doesn't mean they like younger men! When I was 15, I had a boyfriend who was 17, and he had a very hairy chest. And when I was 24, my boyfriend was 29 (and LOOKED 29), but he had no hair on his chest at all! This has NOTHING to do with your age!

And your statement about if women don't learn to be attracted to older men, they'll naturally go for younger ones, is completely wrong! Where did you get that from? Women have always been with older men. Check your info!

Are you a troll?!

Answer 3

1) It's not true.

2) Your "proof" isn't. Did you READ the responses? It does not even show that most of the women who answered that question have a preference for young boys.

3) I personally find it creepy to be attracted to someone in that age range, whether it's a male or a female; however, if someone is over the legal age limit, and if it's consensual, I'm not sure what the problem is.

4) It seems that there are FAR more men who are attracted to young girls. DO you think it's OK?

5) Really, all of your answers/questions are stuck on this one false stereotype. Dude, what IS your problem?

Oh wow, I just saw this... you are truly disturbed.

"but a lot of men for some reason are still into the younger girls. but this is normal compared to older women going for youunger guys."

WHY do you think it's OK for older men to go for younger women, but not the other way around??

Answer 4

I have many problems with what you say.
First you say: "do you think it's ok that nearly all women have a preference for boys who look like they're still in high school? you know it's true, so don't deny it. and i have proof..."

What you claim as proof, isn't proof at all. And you don't say that they ARE in high school, you say they LOOK like they're in high school.

Then you say:
'It seems that there are FAR more men who are attracted to young girls. DO you think it's OK?'

actually, THAT is the false stereotype. i am 18 and i'm already turned of by high school girls. and most experienced men say the sexiest age group is women in their 30s. and not to mention if a guy shows interest in underage girls, other guys naturally feel like punching him out. they call him a pedophile. but the same isn't true for women."

Okay, do you not watch movies or observe any forms of media? High school girls are sexualized MUCH more than high school boys are, and that's because men like that - if they didn't, why would people (meaning advertisers and the people who make TV shows/movies/whatever other form of media you think of) be spending the money to put them on TV if they DIDN'T think that it was going to make people (especially men) watch? They wouldn't, because their main concern is the all mighty buck.
And whoever wrote the statement about girls didn't say your opinion, she said men. Doesn't surprise me that you would answer like that because you believe that your opinion is proof, just like you said your proof was in those females answers in the question you linked to this one.

Answer 5

I am a woman, and I am not the least bit attracted to younger men. In fact, most of the women I know are attracted to older men. My fiance is a few years older than me, and I think that's sexy. I perfer a mature, experienced man who is over the drama of high school. For those older women who are attracted to young boys, I don't think it's right. Society looks down on men who are attracted to younger girls, so it's not okay for women to do it either.

Answer 6

What about all the men who watch "Girls Gone Wild" or "Barely Legal CoEds?" Is that different in some way? Some 40 year old man can watch an 18 year old girl bounce around naked and put random objects in random orifices, but I can't check out an 18 year old guy that passes me on the sidewalk?

Look, our society is one that believes that youth = beauty. So, are you saying it's ok for men to be affected by the media, but women have to pretend it doesn't exist? Nice try.

Answer 7

That's not proof. That's a handful of people on the internet. And many of them disagreed with you. Do you only see what you want to see and filter everything else out? That could explain a lot.

What is your obsession with women dating younger men?

Answer 8

You're wrong. You're generalizing. "Nearly all women" is a false statement. Linking to your own question and rant doesn't make it true. You are having trouble with being rejected by a hot older woman. Get over it and MOVE ON.

Answer 9

Ewww, sorry, but no thanks! I think you'll find most women actually go for older men cause they're more experienced.. Plus I think younger guys look kinda feminine, which is a big turn off.
I like my men tall and rugged with stubble and hairy chests! Yummy!

Answer 10

Hmmm...when I first met my husband, I was 19 (almost 20) and he had just turned 26. He had gray at the temples. I think it's hereditary because his father was gray-haired by age 19.

Interestingly enough he looked no older than I. :) He's 40 and still looks pretty young.