So.. I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now.. everything has been going great! I'm currently in college and he has to travel a bit for work... so we see each other on the weekends/break etc... I think about him all of the time.. and wish I were there with him... Don't want to loose him/grow apart... I just need to try and re-focus myself so that i'm not thinking about him every free second of the day... I still have many years in school/plan on going to medical/dental school after college.. Don't think I could have ever met a better person... Heck.. never thought I would come so close to this person.. Just don't want to loose him/I want to be happy when i'm away from him.. truth is I can't be with him all of the time.. and he really supports me going to school.. Any similar situations or advice anyone? Thanks in advance to everyone who replys!
2007-03-20 08:48:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Stay in school, graduate, move to Massachusetts together, get married and have a happy and wonderful life together.
2007-03-20 08:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through something similar... my boyfriend and I are both going to school and our schools are two hours away from each other. We've been going out for over a year now and it's working out even though we only see each other on weekends and breaks.
The most important thing I've come to realize is that we've picked each other to be with and that is why our relationship works. We don't want anybody else because we love each other and we've found the one we want to spend the rest of our lives with. So, when I start doubting my relationship with him I just remember that he could have picked somebody from his school or somebody else in general but he picked me.
I know it's hard at points but if you love him and he loves you then your relationship will last.
Hope this helps and best of luck!
2007-03-20 10:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand everything you're going through, because I'm almost in the same exact situation. That just means you're in love. Don;t worry. The thing is that you can't be thinking about a person the whole time. There's other things that you need to think of. I hope you're not just obsessed with this guy. =)
2007-03-20 09:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always in the beginning of a relationship you fell this way,and what makes you thinking about him all the time is also the distance.Don't forget first important stuff ,like school.Don't go too deep just thinking about him ,because a men doesn't matter what,still have eyes for other girls ,and for him would be very convenient see you on the weekends and also have free time for other girls.
2007-03-20 09:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
enjoy your time together, be sure you have a strong community of friends at school, and take it day by day.. besides that, you'd have to decide if weekend love is enough... if not, get out now...
2007-03-20 09:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had that problem, but good luck and may God bless you.
2007-03-20 08:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋