2007-03-20 08:41:32 · 13 answers · asked by laura 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Let me share experiences and before I begin let me say I am somewhat "thick" as that can affect a man's perceptions. Been married more than once and had a few girlfriends. I always masturbate in any relationship - as all guys do but they won't always level, partially from a misguided notion their lady'd get jealous (some do) or they keep it secret because they THINK their lady thinks it a weakness (which it's not). To me there is never a problem except if the lady is too loose, in which case, masturbation or not I do not get the same stimulation and usually prefer to be relieved in another fashion because by her being loose I am not really feeling anything - in fact, the lack of sensitivity can cause psychological doubts in either or both partners' minds. So for all you ladies who are a little loose down there (LOL), please try those exercises (Krells I think they call it) that help you tighten your vagina for a better sexual feel, not only for your guy, but for yourselves also.
Peace.
Edit: the exercises are called Kegels.
2007-03-20 09:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY if his masturbation habits are hurried and short-term. If a man just rushes through things to reach orgasm, there is a risk of conditioning his sexual response(s) such that he ejaculates too soon.
On the other hand, if, when he masturbates, he concentrates on recognizing his body's response prior to ejaculation and concentrates on CONTROLLING his ejaculation, that can actually be an ADVANTAGE when having sex with a woman, simply because he's acquired CONTROL.
It is easier to choose when he wants to take his final orgasm.
2007-03-24 04:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on his technique. If he grips too hard during masturbation, it can desensitize him to the point that a woman just doesn't offer enough friction to get the job done anymore. If he will remember to use a "light touch" during masturbation, it shouldn't prove to be a problem.
2007-03-20 09:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about these other answers. I don't even want to have sex with my girlfriend anymore. It's just too much of a hassle...too much unnecessary work. Everyone has to "get in the mood", then there's foreplay, then there's worrying about "is it good for her?", and then there's clean-up, and then there's the post-sex cuddling...ehh.
Honestly, I'm happy with 2 minutes on xnxx.com. Quick. Easy. No drama. No hassle. No clean-up.
2007-03-20 08:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. It's actually easier I find to ejaculate to a vagina rather than through masturbation. It's the added psychological stimulation!!!
2007-03-20 08:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by sam_goody500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even really understand the question, but I gotta say Mr. Snake, I agree completely. I live with my girlfriend and I never want to go through all that crap just to get off so I wait till she sleeps and I watch a video.
2007-03-20 09:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Gentoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26 and my girl friend can masturbate me, then I can have sex with her long enough for her to orgasm several times.
2007-03-20 09:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so because like 99% of teenage boy masterbate a lot and they ussually do fine with vaginal sex. I know I did
2007-03-20 08:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by TheJesterTwist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not,it will not affect sex.that will be another feeling and much better.masturbation is good when we are alone,and when we are with someone it's totally different,just feeling somebody touching us makes us shiver.So...don't worry,you will be fine.
2007-03-20 13:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long ago he stroked it. He might need a break. Is he drained?
2007-03-20 08:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by killab773 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋