I want to plan something romantic and fun for my husband this weekend. We have children and our babysitter is out of tiwn for the weekend so it has to be an at home after 8PM kinda thing. But basically I just want to get the sparks flying like they used to be when we were dating. Guys what can I do to really get his attention? How can I give him a good night?
2007-03-20 08:12:47 · 8 answers · asked by lyndsyherard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys please tell me what you would want if your wife were trying to do something special for you!
2007-03-20 10:06:36 · update #1
I need more ideas Pleaseee
2007-03-20 11:35:56 · update #2
I like the idea of leaving the note.... but what else can I do to spice it up a little?
2007-03-21 08:37:13 · update #3
ok, I remember seeing this somewhere......send him out for something so he has to leave the house and then come back. (You'll have to have stuff set up in advance and make sure those kids stay asleep - I have 4 so I feel your pain ;)
Then get a glass of champagne (or whatever) and put a little not that says something like "Come into the bedroom" and you can leave another note or just sort of be laying there on the bed in some sexy lingerie or something. Then do something a bit out of the ordinary.....if you are usually more docile then be more bold and kneel up to undress him, with good eye contact, etc.....
I think it's great that you continue to do this stuff to keep the spark going.......those are the marriages that last!
2007-03-20 08:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would light candles in the room and suprise him when he comes to bed wearing one of his work shirts and nothing else. Make is a take your times evening after the kids are long asleep. Massge his back kiss his neck. You know all those things you used to do before kids and no more time. If you have a CD player in the bedroom put some romantic music on really low something like Secret Garden or Vivaldi, Four Seasons. Tell him how much you love and need him.
2007-03-20 15:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get dressed up really nice, cook him a good dinner, and just before he starts to eat hand him a card to read. In the card write would you be interested in a seductive strip tease tonight after the kids are asleep? Spend the rest of the evening letting his anticipation build. You'd be real surprised what a turn on to most husbands that can be. Just make sure you pick something easy to get out of.
2007-03-20 15:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the children are in bed, make your bedroom a nice romantic area. I would run a bubble bath with candles, I would spread rose petals from the bath room to the bed. If you have nice satin sheets put those on the bed. After your bath together, get some nice scented lotion and rub each other down - make your way to the bed and go from there.
2007-03-20 15:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by like it is 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the before first, like take sexy pics of you and have them send at his office or at the least e-mail them and say something like "all of this will be yours tonight" any "request in special?" that way you'll prep him before he gets.
Nice dinner and sexy dessert
You go girl! I like it when people wants to keep things fired up!
Have you called him to the office from a hotel or motel for a quicky on lunch break??? ;)
2007-03-20 15:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by lysa24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becareful of the emailing pictures, most companies check work emails.
What works for my husband is getting dressed up in a wild make up and clothes and wild sex. Good Luck!
2007-03-20 15:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bake him a cheesecake.
2007-03-20 16:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babysitters out of town so he`ll need a raincheck
2007-03-20 15:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋