I'm 13, joined a bad crowd. My bro told me several times to leave those guys because they were dangerous. I didn't and he ended up telling our parents, said he had no choice and had to protect me. I was grounded, got really mad at him, felt betrayed, and took a revenge. I was so full of anger that I told his friends he was on drugs and even used to traffic them. Fortunately no one believed me and I got in abad situation. My bro got to know, got kinda sad, even cried, but disdn't tell my parents and told hos friends to forget about what I did, because it was said out of anger, a childish thing and I didn't meant it. Well, I got to know one of the guys of that crowd tried to rape a girl. I felt so ashamed, like a worm and apologized to my bro, who was kinda hurt. He forgave me but I still feel kinda bad about what I did to him. I told his friends it was a lie and apologized. But How can I make up for what I did? Should I tell my patrents in front of all the family and apologize again?
2007-03-20 08:10:21 · 12 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My bro thinks \I shouldnt tell our parents, this would only cause unnecessary pain. He thinks the best think to do is forget about my lies and pretend nothing happened.
2007-03-20 08:12:26 · update #1
In a situation like this, the best thing to do to make amends with people who truly care about you is to make genuine changes in your life... actions speak louder than words.
2007-03-20 08:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by jhvnmt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DON'T TELL THE PARENTAL UNITS! Your brother is obviously a smart guy who thinks things through rationally. You DO NOT want to start more trouble where trouble doesn't need to be started. That's what he's trying to avoid.
The best thing you can do for your brother is what he asks. If he wants you to let it go, then let it go. But just keep it in mind for the future, in case he ever needs a favor, etc.
And for God's sake, stay away from trashy people.
My parents told me this every day growing up, and I never believed them at the time, but I now know it is the honest-to-God-truth:
"The Bad always rubs off on the Good, and never the other way around".
In 10 years, the "rebellious group" ends up in prison.
In 10 years, the "nerdy group" ends up owning Microsoft Corporation.
Plan ahead.
2007-03-20 09:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You have a very forgiving and loving brother. Just follow his lead and if he says your apology is enough, then it is enough.
Now you can show him by your ACTIONS that you meant your apology and try from this day forward to respect him and treat him lovingly and kindly.
I am happy to see that this has affected you the way it has. A humble heart is a heart that can be shaped and molded into a wonderful human being.
No one is perfect. We make mistakes. But those mistakes only stay mistakes until they become lessons learned.
This is life. It sounds like you are handling it well.
2007-03-20 09:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you are very lucky to have a brother like that!! I think the best way to make it up to your brother is to take care of yourself and don't get into anymore trouble! It will make him happy to see you care about yourself as much as he cares about you! Just keep on reminding him how grateful you are, and let him know that if he was in trouble you would do the same for him. If he doesn't want you to tell your parents then you shouldn't, because he might get upset. So just forget about it..... but always remember what he did for you!
2007-03-20 08:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by kez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how wonderful to have appologised to your brother and don't worry anymore because your brother truely loves and care for you enough to have foregiven you and bro this is a time to listen and respect your big bro's advice and opinion because it takes one who truely loves and care for you to foregive and let go so honey foreget as your bro said.Try to really get loser to him by asking him to helping certain things like your home work[that is when you don't undersand]
2007-03-20 08:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Edith B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go hang out with that wrong crowd again, they don't sound bad, wear your sexiest peice of clothing and hang out with them on a friday night.
Im jk btw your brother did the right thing because that guy would probably rape you lol.
2007-03-20 14:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by wazzy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha that used to be humorous! lol! this is my tale: good enough so there is this man sits at the back of me at tuition and he used to be sitting in his chair and dropped 1 / 4. he placed one in all his legs over the bar that connects the table side to the chair side and that i noticed it coming. he leaned ahead and screamed within the center of sophistication. each woman within the magnificence used to be giggling and the trainer mentioned, "Is there a drawback?" and he mentioned, "I'm in suffering!" i imply he had tears. the trainer mentioned, "Well, probably subsequent time you will not do aerobics in my magnificence." then later whilst he wasn't crying i despatched him a observe that mentioned "yay! i wouldn't have any paintings to do the chair did it for me." oh and a further time i used to be with my cousin and that i kicked him there unintentionally and he simply stood there like he did not suppose some thing. i mentioned, "You ok? did i harm you?" he mentioned," yah why would not i be? i am dressed in a cup for karate." i mentioned, "Good factor."
2016-09-05 09:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe tell your parents how you regret everything, in front of your brother, and promise them it wont happen again. but the best way to make up for it is by not doing it again. your very lucky to have a brother who cares about you
2007-03-20 08:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow i wish i had a brother like that....
oh and if did what you did
i would hug him tight and let him know how much i love him and tell him how terribly sorry i am and ask for forgiveness
2007-03-20 08:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by lalanoesbest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a GREAT brother!! I would just aproach him and apologize giving him a big hug.
2007-03-20 08:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋