I just got married n its truly a happy one! We are now staying in our dream home which we had put in so much effort in creating. We r really happy n I know I had married the greatest guy in my world, who really loves and dotes on me, who is willing to sacrifice anything for me, just to make me happy. As for me, I love my husband, but deep in my heart, there is this guy, my ex, whom I am not able to forget. Even so, I know very well that my husband is the 1 I want, n I will want to be the best wife I can be.
I am really happy until 1 day, I receive a sms from my ex, telling me that he stays in the same blk as us. It was a great shock for me n my husband. Although I did not react much, I know he is stepping into my life again. I hate him for telling me this. I act as if nothing had happen this 1 mth but I feel really unhappy that I've been thinking of him, esp when this is the time I should be enjoying my newly wed life! I am very sad. How can I let go n not think about him anymore?
2007-03-20 08:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Remember the BAD times.
Remember there is a REASON you are not a couple:
--if you broke up with him, remember that reason.
--if he broke up with you, believe his actions not his words.
FYI: why oh why does your ex have the ability to sms you? Block him. He is a scab, and you are picking at it.
Nothing good can come of this.
2007-03-20 08:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously do not love your husband like you claim to.If you loved your husband and truely appreciated all that he does for you then you would not be thinking about your ex.Your ex is your ex and you should have cut all ties with him.You are playing a dangerous game and if you want to lose your husband you are on the road to it..Why don't you tell your husband how you feel and that your ex is txt messaging you and see what he think's about it..Like I said you are playing with fire and it is only a matter of time before you get burned.I am not saying this to you to be mean I am just telling you facts of what is going to happen..You are on the verge of losing all the good thing's you have...Most importantly a man that adores you don't crush your husband like that you should have more respect for him if not for yourself..
2007-03-20 15:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about him, and when you find yourself thinking about him, stop thinking about him....you broke up for a reason...do not disrespect your husband.
2007-03-20 15:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by in2one 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋