2007-03-20 08:02:17 · 16 answers · asked by Maitha a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if her mother died, there is no real way to comfort her.
The way she takes in what you do or say to her will help her attitude about the situation. But a death like that cannot be cured in the mind of someone that care about them dearly.
2007-03-20 08:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥DANyELLE. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speak with your presence, just let her know that you are there, just in case she may need to talk, or just get out of the house and go for a walk or something. Not a lot of words, just a shoulder to lean on. That will mean the world, to her.
2007-03-20 15:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No body want words when some one die. They just want some one to be there for them with out word and just to see if there ok things like that will help.
2007-03-20 15:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm sorry for your lost, but life will go on. It's alright to cry at times, it's only human nature to mourn, but don't let it affect your life for the worst. Your mother would have wanted to see you succeed. If it means anything, I'm here for you when you need a shoulder to cry on. Now come on, let's go shopping, and after-wards, we can get ice cream. I'll pay."
2007-03-20 15:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U tell her that ur here for her if she needs u & that ur sorry for her lost. She has to realize that her mother is in a far better place than we r...this is a crazy world today. Tell her that ur always gonna be there for her! Say what's on ur heart :-)
2007-03-20 15:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A squeeze of the hand, and a "I'm sorry." Don't ever say, ""I know how you feel," since you cannot know the depth of the relationship he and his mother had, and especially if your mother is still alive.
2007-03-20 15:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can say:i'm really so sorry,your mom was and still a great woman,she was there for anyone needed her,she helped all the people so don't be sad...she is in heaven and in our heart,she will be always here to protect you,she will never leave you alone.
2007-03-20 15:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that her mother will always be w/ her. and that you are there if she needs someone to talk to. give her a good long hug. and take her out to eat. and do whatever makes her happy
2007-03-20 15:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by coocoo4cocopuffs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh. . .say what u feel.i think u should support her and b there for her all the way. alot of us dont feel the pain they feel b/ its not our family member/friend , or just some one u loved,that died. they need some one to lean on, talk to , feel comfortable around. tell them that you'll be there for them, that if they need any one to talk to you'll be there. but they shouldnt slow down life just because of what happend, they should move on. but really, if u were his or her true friends you would kno what to say.
2007-03-20 15:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, there arent any words, a good hug and listening ears help a lot more.
2007-03-20 15:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋