we have a good sex life together, so I don't get the attraction. Porn is ok, but he can't go without it. Chat rooms just seem like another way to connect with others, then what? He says it's "who he is" Looking for advice about these sites, info, support, commentary, etc...
2007-03-20 08:01:37 · 7 answers · asked by susan 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If those two things are starting to take over his life and is getting in the way of your relationship, then bring it up and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you would like to spend more time together and would appreciate it if he could put those things aside. If its not getting in the way or if its not that big of a problem and he does it on his free time, then just let him be.
2007-03-20 08:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 14:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be...it could be not...it all depends on his history. how long have you been with him? Did you know that porn chat rooms may excite your boyfriend by the prospect, not so much the action. Additionally, pornography is something that gives boys a feeling of security, sometimes. So here are my conclusions: (1)he is severly insecure, (2) he is completley bored with your shared sex life, or (3) he is a porn addict, which means he needs help.
2007-03-20 10:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married and i enjoy both of them!! i do not want to leave my hubby! i know because of what they are some people look at it as he is going to leave or he is looking at porn because i do not satisfy him..but that is not always the case! i enjoy all aspects of sex,including looking at it and i enjoy talking to other people around the world! i would not think into it to much unless you notice a direct change in him i.e. not coming home,lies,weird phone calls ect....
2007-03-20 10:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by onecrazymama05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-23 08:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that "it's just who I am" defense... is it a deal breaker? cause he ain't gonna change... be good to yourself... chat rooms are there for hook ups, assuming you're a gay couple... where did you two meet?
2007-03-20 09:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The excuse "who he is" is extremely lame. He's an addict. And eventually, addictions cause problems with the addict and those around them.
2007-03-20 08:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋