My guy will be hard, hard, hard then all of a sudden he will randomly lose his erection!
WHY IS THIS HAPPENING?
Is it nerves or something else? It happens about 2/3 of the time. It is starting to become a little bit of a problem. Sometimes he can get it back but sometimes he can't not even with oral!
Is there anything I can do to help? I have never had a BF that this has happened to this often....
I love him and want to be with him but damn...
2007-03-20 07:48:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
We are in our 20's
2007-03-20 07:52:31 · update #1
Your boyfriend, though in his 20's, is suffering from ED, or Erectile Dysfunction. Since he's a bit young, I'd suggest a thorough physical to see if there is a medical reason for this to be happening.
If not, then it's probably starting to be a psychological thing. He worries about getting an erection, he has a problem, next time he worries even more, he has a problem again. It's a vicious cycle.
A man's sexuality is a very complicated and sensitive issue. You need to handle this situation with kid gloves. Not to mention love and understanding and encouragement.
But first thing...get him a checkup...and go from there!!! And make SURE his doctor knows what's going on!!!
2007-03-20 08:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sally G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub the base just underneath the balls. You should feel the penis extend between the balls and into his body. Rub it hard, no need to be gentle! If that doesn't work, try a prostate massage (yes, that means you need to go in through the out-door). Try both of these techniques while performing oral sex. If that doesn't get a rise out of him, then try psych counseling, he could be stressed about something.
2007-03-20 17:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by mikehunt29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I need a girlfriend like you!
Just like women, it may be a mental thing.
Try and pay attention to the times he loses his erection. Did he have an emotionally draining day before that?
If it isn't mental then it may be physiological. And definately have him see his physician as it may be an indicator of something worse.
Or just buy some viagra.
2007-03-20 15:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tyson boy's dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an adult store get stay hard or a cock ring to be exact or try viagra some guys just have that problem
2007-03-20 15:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kitkat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know that was happening to me alot before,. the number one reasong is that i was stressed so much ..... try to see if there is something wrong or something bothering him....
2007-03-20 16:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't KNOW
2007-03-20 18:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Girl with money 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋