i love this guy so much but he`s married and he has two kids!!!! i think he jhas feelings for me too and his wife is uninterested in him anyway...help!!! what do i do?? i`m so scared to let him know.
2007-03-20 07:40:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i really don`t wwant to be a home wrecker but how do i let this feeling pass?????
2007-03-20 07:41:59 · update #1
you seriously need to cut all ties to him. you are wanting something you cant have. besides, if he was to leave her to be with you, who's to say he wouldnt do it to you too.
let him be a family man and be committed without any interruptions. also, if you were married how would you like it done to you?
2007-03-20 07:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jacinda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it takes to start dating a lot, you do it. Date a lot and stay far away from this guy. He may very well want to screw around on his wife. He may want a reason to walk out of his marriage. You shouldn't be that reason. While you are dating, tell yourself that you are proud that you can choose not to be a home-wrecker. Have a good time and keep your fingers crossed that you might meet someone special. You eventually will. Use you head and let you heart follow at its own pace. When it comes to extra-marital affairs, there is no such thing as a slut with a heart of gold. There is no such thing as giving a guy a little piece of a** on the side and calling it 'finding your soul mate.' He's taken. He has kids. He has a wife. End of story.
2007-03-20 07:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't really matter if his wife isn't interested in him. most wives aren't that's how the affairs start to begin with, but believe me, once they see what the husband is doing they're interested all over again. if he isn't willing to leave his wife for you or he isn't already divorced i wouldn't waste my time with it. it's fun and all, but if you have real, true feelings for someone who is married it's best just to leave that alone.
by all means don't let him know anything! he probably can already tell as much if you two are hanging around each other more than you two should. heck, wife probably already knows that you like him as well, and doesn't want you around him. that's OK and all but if you take it to that next level you'll have real trouble on your hands. just isn't worth it.
2007-03-20 07:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DATE THE MAN.............he is married, a father. How would you feel if you were the wife and he cheated on you? DON'T be a ho, be an upstanding citizen. Besides there's so many men out there, WHY **** THE LIFE OF HIS KIDS??????
2007-03-20 07:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell you the Truth i understand you because i was in the same situation and i was just though about do i want to be with a men that married and have to kids there no real future to that.
2007-03-20 07:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by hopelovecocoa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on to someone available. If he's a married man who would cheat on his wife, he worthless anyway. You would love a liar, a cheater, and someone who would abandon his own family? Wow, what a catch.
2007-03-20 07:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know the right answer and just let go, as long as he is married man and no matter what kind of excuses he have, stay as platonic friend. Life are full of troubles and don't add this one more. Cheers.
2007-03-20 07:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
move on to someone flse and forget about hime because you do not wat to be in any mess like fights and stuff but if he isplanning not to be with is wife any more and he is not with her and is davorice and his own place then go for it ad get him but for now he is with his wife so just leav him alone and if he wanted tou he would have chased after you and try hard to get you so dont bother
2007-03-20 07:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by nagalyne c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get past your feelings by growing up and dealing with it. Stay away!!!! He's MARRIED. That's all you need to know.
2007-03-20 07:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a sister... a fellow female
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO TOUCH ANOTHER LADIES MAN
so you say she in NOT INTERESTED
Have you ever thought if he has done somethng to make her pull away, Dont just take his word for it.
or DO you know Personally FROM HER THAT SHE IS NOT INTERESTED????
AND REMEMEBR
If he would whore around on his wife
dont you some where in your mind REALIZE He will whore around on you as well????????????????/
2007-03-20 07:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋