2007-03-20 07:39:26 · 26 answers · asked by Jesabel 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
1) It made me question what I did wrong, when GOD took away my 12 yr old daughter and my 16 yr old stepdaughter. They were in a car accident in 2003. My step daughter died first and I was mad at GOD for taking my daughter 3 days later, who was on life support.
2) It made me cherish the ones that were left behind, and try not to sweat the small stuff.
3) It made me question my life, because each one of my daughters had over 500 people at their funerals, 3 days apart in 2 different cities. It made me question, what legacy will I leave behind, what will my life mean to others, will I be missed.
With a lot of help from my church members, family and friends, I am led to beleive that GOD loves beautiful things and he wanted his angels back!
May GOD bless, keep and guide you in your loss!
2007-03-20 07:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by D W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend, Daniel, killed himself may 21, 2006. the pain never goes away, i think about him all the time and thankfully, keep in touch with his family. it has dramatically changed my life for i am alot more sensitive to people's needs and i respect people's feeelings more than i used to. i'm also way too protective of my friends and family now. One of my biggest regrets was not having alot of pictures of him and my other friends so now i just run around taking pictures of everybody.
2007-03-20 14:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by kissmexBANGBANG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It made me a lil tougher but it also makes me cry for other people when their people die. I guess just because I know how they feel. It's also made me appreciate the people I do have around me. To make sure I show them that I love so in case it happens to me again atleast I know I valued that person as much as I possibly could while I had them.
2007-03-20 14:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I lost my Mom a year ago. I have found that I do not try to bring new people into my life as much as I used to. Partly because I don't want to lose them and partly because I have learned to cherish and treasure those I already do have in my life.
2007-03-20 14:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Semi-charmed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasn't changed me at all. I was taught very early in life that death is part of the life cycle. To me, when they are gone from this place, they go on to a better place.
I miss my loved ones who are on the other side, but I know I will be with them when my time comes.
2007-03-20 14:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned a lot about myself. I had no idea why he left, so I had to look at myself and figure out what happened. I learned that my fear of losing him made me defensive and closed towards him. At least I know for next time. (he did tell me at a later time and I was right)
2007-03-20 14:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by The Queen Bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thankfully haven't lost someone yet that I cared for deeply.
2007-03-20 14:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee was killed a few years ago by a drunk driver. I make sure that the people in my life know that they are loved. Even when they make me mad, they know that at the end of the day I would do anything for them.
2007-03-20 14:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. May 13, 2006, I was forever changed.
2007-03-20 14:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Drama Queen Foxy Manhunting 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's made me want to be a better person and do what is right so I can be with those people that have passed before me again.
2007-03-20 14:42:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋