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2007-03-20 07:25:04 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

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Not having a girlfriend or a spouse doesn't make you gay. It doesn't make you weak. It doesn't make you intrinsically inferior in any way. Anyone who says otherwise is little more than a small-minded fool.

Think about it. A person who needs no partner clearly has everything within himself to obtain happiness. A person who MUST have a partner is comparatively less complete. Dependant, even. Very few healthy relationships are built on dependancy.

Nor is there any real shortage of examples of men who actively chose a life free from entagling relationships, and even entirely free of sex. Some of these people are respected to this day - hardly the weaklings, losers, or deviants that some would cast men without girlfriends as. Far from impossible, I would say it's not even particularly uncommon, even if it isn't quite as overtly noticed.

So don't let these people project their own weaknesses onto you. Just because THEY can't imagine their lives without someone to wipe their runny noses, it hardly means that YOU can't. Find your satisfaction from within, and it will be a never-ending font. Look for it on the outside, and you are bound to be looking forever.

Peace.

2007-03-20 08:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 0 0

Yes. A girlfriend does not make you a man. You can lead a healthy, productive life as a single. You might get labelled, but that doesn't mean you are less than you are, it just means they have no life and must conjure something up about someone else. Living life with no strings means you have a freedom many men envy. So, enjoy it until someone special comes along and robs you of your precious freedom. :-)

2007-03-20 14:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by dwilmoth822 3 · 1 0

It really depends on your idea of a girlfriend. It seems that your needs could be easily meet (both physical and mental)by a series of relationships without the commit usually associated with dating. To go from female friend to female friend having the verbal intimacy of companionship, while going from fling to fling for the physical, really isn't a problem, it's when you feel the need for marriage that things fall apart.

2007-03-20 18:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by tony n 2 · 0 0

I have lived most of my life as a single person.
After a period of time, I came to think of this as my way of life forever.
Recently, I have come into the most wonderful relationship of my life. It is so joyous and fulfilling that I want it to go on forever.
However, I know I'm not in charge of this. Only time will tell what will happen. And I will go on, with or without him.
Hope you find her and it's forever.

2007-03-20 14:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0 0

Nothing is impossible. A good friend of mine doesn't have a girlfriend and hasn't had many; he keeps to himself and is a very private person, but he is one of the happiest people I know actually. Life is about more than the people we love and lose...

2007-03-20 14:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1 0

I can't even imagine a girl's world without a girlfriend.

2007-03-20 14:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes, if not with whom will u spend ur nights with ?
to chat on the net would be a gr8 fun.
to kiss and she can be the energy booster for you..
who will sit with u in the corner seat in theater,
whom will u send a lovely SMS

who will walk with you on the beach.
who will speak with you for hours.
she will be ur shadow. Yes girlfriends make life beautifull.

So have one..and enjoy.

2007-03-20 14:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by krishna m 2 · 0 0

the beginning of having a real girl friend is when you can imagine a world totally without her.

2007-03-20 15:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by sam_alot 2 · 1 0

W/O a girlfriend yes. W/O women of course not. W/O women no men. But yes you could go through your whole life with no girlfriend. It is called being gay.... Or I guess you could call him your girl friend if you wanted.

2007-03-20 14:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by puggylover 4 · 0 1

Without females - men would not be here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just don't understand why China believes their world is to be made up of men only.............. men can NOT reproduce, therefore, they should cease to exist in a relatively short period of time.

2007-03-20 15:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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