im 19 y o guy ppl alway assume that im gay or treat me as gay and i dont know why i mean i dont act feminen or anything but i only act as a blond and thats what i am ppl just assume im gay or dump just because im blond or it doesnt have to do anything about me being blond i mean i know i know i dont act as arnold or anything but i dont act femeine either i act normal and theres ppl who arent blond or anything and they act so feminie but ppl dont judje them or say that they r gays or anything so is the problem of me being blond or is it just me or what do u think
2007-03-20 07:20:02 · 11 answers · asked by lover 5 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do you know what a run-on sentence is?
2007-03-20 07:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look man, you're obviously frustrated at being assumed as gay because of either your hair color or whatever it may be. I think a lot of your frustration is that you've got an underlying hatred of gays in general and to be labeled as such just ticks you off. First, there's nothing wrong with being gay, many people are, some open, some not. You will be judged by many for some reason or another, if not for this, but for something else. Be secure with yourself and not worry about what other people think. People only judge and put down others to build up themselves because they're pathetic P.O.S.'s and hate everything, everyone, and of course- theirselves. Be yourself, screw other people, and you'll find happiness. Don't allow others' hatred create a hatred in you. From what I figure from what you wrote...you're probably a very good-looking guy and so are twinks...I was going to give you some options to look at in how you dress, etc., but I think the above advice would work rather than trying to adjust how you look to appease those who spend their lives in meaningless behaviors. Good luck to you, stay cool!
2007-03-24 09:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by doogie2man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a first. People assume you are gay because you are blond? as far as I know the "blond prejudice" apply only to women, I never heard of a guy label as dumb cause he is blond. Anyways, if you are not gay then don't bother about what others think, just tell people you are not gay and that's it. Is not like they are calling you murderer or anything awful like that.
2007-03-20 14:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by rickyhunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you arent gay, then it shouldn't bother you. Who cares what others think? As long as you know that you aren't gay, then there shouldn't be a problem. Just tell them you are not gay and don't let it get to you if they still believe you are. But no matter what, don't change who you are just to prove that you are not gay. Just be yourself and don't let those losers get to you.
2007-03-20 14:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hello 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably gesture a lot with your hands when you get excited right? Do you like Musicals too? And worship Judy Garland and Liza Minnelli?
Just Kidding!
Who cares what people think. Just be you.
2007-03-20 14:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 19 years old? You can't form a sentence or spell. I don't believe for a second that you are 19. Go back to your school work.
2007-03-20 14:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by jjspike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me, when you got vaccinated did they have the needle attached to a CD player in fast forward mode?
Learn how to use periods and capital letters.
If anything you come across as a dumb blonde.
2007-03-20 14:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i had my hair blonde, i got the opposite. ppl said I looked real narly. maybe it was because i had a dark mustache and goatee, but no one ever thought I looked gay because of my hair.
2007-03-20 14:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about dying your hair? Or getting a girlfriend? Or if you are really gay, get a boyfriend? Does it really matter?
2007-03-20 14:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What other people think shouldn't matter. Be honest with yourself and keep on being you!
2007-03-20 14:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Louie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋