My son is turning 2 on May 1. My ex and I have 7 months that he left he comes around once a week he some times spends a day with him when I take my son to his home on his day off. I was thinking 4 his B-Day that I wanted to take my 3 son to Disney land the whole day. I was not thinking of telling his father. I am getting second thoughts should I tell him what I have planned or should I just go with my first thought???? He does give me money..... He just doesn't call for him or spend time with him.
Please help me.
2007-03-20 07:15:58 · 10 answers · asked by Natural 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, why are you afraid to tell him about it anyway? Will he object to you going to disneyland? Just tell him what you are doing and do it, if he is worried about not having him on his birthday then just set a day for him to have his son to do his own birthday thing with him. If you have custody of your son, he cant really do anything about you going to Disneyland anyway right?
2007-03-20 07:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his father to go with you for the day and see if he is open to it... If he does not want to go with you then take your son and have fun and enjoy Disney land with him for the whole day! good luck to you and have fun and enjoy this special and fun time with your son and be sure to take lots of pictures and make lots of memories together for the both of you. Yes you should tell him what you have planned and you should invite him to come with:) happy Birthday to your son by the way and here comes a BIG birthday hug to such a BIG boy!
2007-03-20 14:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just take the kids. It could be your speical day with them. With out having him around. If he wants to spend the bday with his son he can do it alone to.
have fun at disneyland.
2007-03-20 14:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by hascht2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why call him if he doesn't care enough to call and check on his children? I wouldn't go out of my way for someone with little respect for you and your children. Why do you take your son to his house on his day off? He should be coming around you. You are doing too much and you need to stop. You also need to take him to court for child support.
2007-03-20 14:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him......he has a right to know. think about it, the only reason you aren't going to tell him is because of you....dont ruin your son's day by causing problems with his father.
2007-03-20 14:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by in2one 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you are taking the boys to disneyland and if he wants to come he's more then welcome if not get a small cake and invite him over for a private b-d party with his son.
2007-03-20 14:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take him to Disnayland~ u do not need to tell him or ask him...he is your son too so go have fun at Disneyland
2007-03-20 14:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should definately take the kids... who cares what he thinks. youre their sole provider. yea he gives you money but thats to support the child if he elects not to spend time with the child you do whats best for the baby and take him for his bday. its not like he had anything planned for the baby right? dont hold off on your kids for his sake.
2007-03-20 14:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would let him know, it's his child too and should have the right to see him on his birthday.
2007-03-20 14:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go, ask his permission and he'll take advantage of that.
2007-03-20 14:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋