What are some romantic ways to verbalize this without saying it. My wife says that this not romantic.
2007-03-20 07:12:23 · 37 answers · asked by tom t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cook, clean and do everything possible to lighten her load. She once said that me doing house work was an aphrodisiac so I took notice. But it's not. I do a lot of house work and still very little sex.
2007-03-21 08:17:32 · update #1
dont say anything-sit behind her start by rubbing her neck and back -play with her hair-(we love that) give her little kisses all over her neck and ears-think soft and sweet at first and let things progress - a woman has to be mentally seduced before she can be physically seduced-
2007-03-20 07:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by baseballlover 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why is there a need to verbalize it? If you want her to be in the mood, show her that you want her. Sometimes it's better when you use body language. Words tend to get old after hearing the same thing over and over. Perhaps this is something you might want to try. You could chase each other around, help her cook, dance with her, etc. You should be able to come up with something that you know will turn your wife on. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-20 07:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is doing the dishes , offer to help . Then massage her sholders, kiss her on the neck.
Watching TV, cuddle up together and just start kissing her and giving her a massage.
If she is taking a shower , join in.
Bring home some flowers for no reason.
Leave a note on the bathroom sink when you leave in the morning telling her you can't wait to be with her that night.
Leave a note in her purse that you are looking forward to a wonderful night together.
Call her a work and tell her you will be waiting at home for her with open arms. Have dinner ready and a good bottle of wine.
How did you treat when you were dating , remember the good old days and what turned her on.
2007-03-20 07:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by springer 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Come home, give her a peck on the neck, rub her back, maybe buy her some flowers. Cuddle on the couch. However, do not, let me repeat this.............DO NOT verbalize wanting sex. We need to feel worthy, lovely, beautiful and romantized. I know, I know!! Sounds so cliche, but no matter what woman is out there, there is none that can say romantic behaviour will get you sex, verbalizing it turns us off. Or rather, turns me off.
2007-03-20 07:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The most romantic way is to not ask at all. If it happens, it happens - if not, then maybe some other time. Whenever you do something with the sole purpose of "getting sex", it just isn't that romantic.
2007-03-20 07:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why talk at all? Just be loving and affectionate and let one thing lead to another. If she has such specific ideas about what she does and does not want to hear, let her be the one to initiate it for a while. After she sees how rough it can be to always be the one putting themselves out there, maybe she'll lighten up.
2007-03-20 07:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-19 04:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by tonini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes just driving off to a secluded area pack a picnic basket with wine coolers (women love those)
2007-03-20 07:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first start off with a candle light dinner, fix her bath water and clean the house that day play a nice slow music while giving her a body rub. move every pain away from her and ease her mind in to the music lololololol tell me how it go she will get the pic.
2007-03-20 07:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by shereda b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off....never ask. Flirt like you did in highschool. Get behind her when she's washing the dishes and rub her shoulders and then breath deep in her ear......or something like that. It's all about your actions. If you ask----we're always going to say NO cause chances are it wasn't even on our mind if you had to ask.
2007-03-20 13:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋