Is it normal for a man to find younger women very beautiful and attractive?

Question

I am 25 yrs old, but in my age group I find women to be too stuck-up, reserved and very demanding. The only reason I think one would like them is for their looks and body.

However, the younger women (in their late teens) whom I have met, I found them very well-behaved, polite, friendly and attractive.

Is it just me, or do others feel the same way as well?

Answer 1

This is very much the way it is in our society today. Attractive girls are wonderful until somewhere between 17 and 22, when they have the opportunity to become nasty and demanding. Not that one should be going after underage women because they behave better. Not all of them follow this path, but most of them do to some extent. They grow out of it somewhere between 30 and 40 years old. The difference is that they are more demanding and take longer to grow up today than ever before, and it's only going to get worse. I'd hate to be a man in his twenties today.

Answer 2

I have noticed that healthy age is a seven year span straddling the woman (+5, -2). So a man 25 years of age is compatible with women between the ages of 20 to 27 years of age.

Past this, and there is very extreme generational gaps that plague the relationships. Mythology like "Dracula" tell us the story of real old men who pray after young women so they can feel younger (quicken) themselves ... however, as all vampire stories go, it is never enough, and they suck the life and beauty out of the young maiden; not to mention the agony of the vampire who never finds happiness but only more empty corpes. Yes, there are women vampires too ... beware.

Answer 3

It is natural, but not necessarily healthy.

I can't imagine that girls who are 18-19 are truly being raised in a manner that is significantly different from those in which the current 24-25 year olds were raised. If the 18-19 year olds seem more well-behaved and friendly to you, it is probably because they are either intimidated by your maturity and intelligence or freaked out by your inappropriate advances but don't have the experience and confidence to tell you off.

I see your point in saying that SOME of the women in their twenties can tend to come across as stuck-up and demanding. Perhaps it's all the conspicuous consumption, perhaps it's the hip-hop culture, but it seems like that those in their 20's these days all think they are entitled to expensive luxuries that people would have thought of as extravagant 20 years ago. That said, if all you're after is their "looks and body," then maybe they're just smart enough to see through your b.s.

My advice is to concentrate on your own superficial behavior before you start criticizing others for theirs.

Answer 4

Yes it is all about maturity levels and you have described yours well. You would like a fun play date as opposed to a driven committed and challenging relationship. There is no crime in that. I have a man friend who is 50 and married -quite happily- to a 19 year old. He has a playful nature and although financially set no interest in the seriousness of women his own age. He likes his women young and carefree. It is a very good thing you know what your preferences are so that you can avoid what you do not like and keep the path clear of a life you would find dull indeed. Good Luck!

Answer 5

DID you in effortless terms FALL out of your TREE??? of direction older adult men are going to locate youthful females extra effective and inviting and captivating!!! yet once you commence entering into females youthful than nineteen or twenty then some thing is unquestionably incorrect. because of the fact now your'e talking approximately little ones. a guy after a baby is a guy you dont have faith. you do no longer have faith him with something, even after he's out of the room, he's somebody you do no longer prefer to have faith.

Answer 6

Woa.. buddy... put the candy down and back away from the kids... Sorry, but your question is borderline creepy there.

No I for one find children aggravating, immature, and a general pain in the ***... but then again, perhaps that’s why you're drawn to them.

My suggestion would be to first grow up... then you may appreciate maturity... and then maybe you can look at YOURSELF and wonder why every mature woman you know makes you feel they are stuck up, reserved, and demanding... maybe its because you're immature and they are sick of it, rather than them being the problem.

Actually... yea... I'd have to say that’s the reason... and just remember... when you're pointing a finger at someone, there are 3 other ones pointing right back at you. Look to yourself first and find out how you can improve yourself than looking to see why everyone else has a problem.

My advice... Seek Psychiatric counseling... I'd hate to hear about you being arrested for molesting an underage minor... Because that’s where you're heading.

Answer 7

It is normal for a man to be attracted to women who are very well-behaved, polite, friendly and attractive. Age has little to do with these features.

Answer 8

i don't really agree. i'm 18 and even though i am turned off by high school girls. i am in college and i am only interested in college girls and older. depends on my mood. sometimes i feel like i'm more into women in their late 20s and early 30s and other times i feel that i am more into women in their late teens to mid 20s. most men actually say women in their late 20s and 30s are best in bed. but a lot of men for some reason are still into the younger girls. but this is normal compared to older women going for youunger guys.

Answer 9

As long as they're in the "legal" age it's OK, or else you might be mistaken as a pedophile.

Answer 10

as a female, I'm flattered when an older guy shows an interest in me. I recently went out with a guy who was 53, and had one of the most fun times I've ever had. I sort of ignore any guy under 30. the more mature and thoughtful, the better.