i was out at my old skool but it was easier because there was only 30 attending students. now that i have moved and are attending a bigger skool wit a population of about 325students i want to be out in the open because they have a small group of lesbian that i hang out wit but only 2 of 8 are out. i have a chance to start over but i dont want to go bac in the closet (its dark in there). wat do i do now? which would be best in my situation?
2007-03-20 06:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by NewOrleansSmartGirl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do what makes you happy..if ur happy coming out, then come on out... If ur not happy coming out stay in the closet and turn the light on!
2007-03-20 09:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming out to your close friends is a good start. Then if you decide to, when you're ready, come out because you'll feel more open, and happier like you did at your old school. As long as you have your close group of friends that are lesbians, I'm sure you'll be fine.
2007-03-20 14:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congradulations, at least now you might have a chance to actually learn how to spell "School!"
Maybe.
I mean, 325 students is still an extremely small school.
I went to a school with 3,250 students...and that was over twenty years ago! Now there are nearly 10,000 students split between two high schools..and somehow I managed to actually learn a thing or two.
2007-03-20 14:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was an outcast in high school and it affected me for most of my life. Lately, i have realized that what affected me most about that was that i cared about what they thought of me and i actually valued the judgement of about 1000 people who barely know me, who have only said hi/hello to me on few occasions above that of me and my family who have been with me all my life and know what a great person i am.
You reach your full potential of loving, generosity, empathy, compassion, etc ONLY when you allow yourself the freedom to be your self. So with this knowledge in mind, who really cares whats going on in everyone of those 325 minds. Your opinion of yourself counts the most.
So be your gorgeous self and everyone else will catch up in time
2007-03-20 14:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by uz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that honesty is always best. Honesty to yourself. What you do really want to do?
2007-03-20 14:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be happy until you are out! You'll be fine.. do what makes you happy.
2007-03-20 14:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by ik ben alphabetsoup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Why does your orientation even matter?
2007-03-20 14:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋