2007-03-20 06:49:50 · 19 answers · asked by Jasper 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have only had one unpleasant anal experience and that was due to my bf just going right in without em having a chance to relax. It hurt a lot, but the pain shortly subsided and from there on it was just pleasure. As always... use lube and don't be afraid to overdo it. Take things slowly and communicate. If it hurts tell him to slow down and when you're relaxed and ready... go all out. Once you're relaxed you should feel little to no pain at all. It should really never be a painful experience.
2007-03-20 07:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by elquinmagus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So far you've got the best advice... relax and use lube. But you might also try loosening up a little before full-on anal sex. Try using fingers, one at first then two, then three... And maybe toys like butt plugs or a dildo. Eventually you will relax enough to allow for sex. And in the end (pardon the pun), you might like it or you might not. But get past the pain and then judge.
2007-03-20 08:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by sacredvanity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally love anal esp on the receiving end.
Increase how much lube your using, tell the top to go gentle and slow its a uncomfortable when you first start. RELAXE top should know to make the bottom comfortable before insertion.
2007-03-20 07:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Prometheus Cowboy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
this is an exceedingly comfortable subject between couples. a minimum of he's not threatening to bypass away you in case you do no longer do it! in case you adult males have been at the same time for a lengthy time and are making plans to at last get married, then i might tell him that this is something i might evaluate after marriage (given which you're rather rather prepared to discover this threat at that factor) yet for now which you're merely no longer comfortable with it. Then i might study books on it like loopy to optimistically make your self greater comfortable with it. you will possibly might desire to artwork your self as much because it--having his palms up there first and then at last trusting him adequate to get his member in there. besides the fact that if this is maximum severe to do what makes you sense comfortable. tell him you are able to no longer promise that it will ever ensue, yet you will evaluate it for the destiny. you do no longer ought to compete together with his ex. there's a reason she's no longer in his life anymore. If anal meant that lots to him, he might nonetheless be together with her!
2016-10-19 04:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by tonini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but you can make it less uncomfortable by using lubes and a relaxer for the sphincter muscle.
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2007-03-23 23:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, only uncomfortable if you are the receiver
2007-03-20 06:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by britt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It can be uncomfortable if you arent completely relaxed & arent using a GOOD lube. And if its your first time...it will hurt like s.hit. But for some, its very pleasurable.
2007-03-20 06:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Even though it isn't at all painful when done correctly, it is very intense, and for some people it's just not a sensation that they like.
2007-03-20 07:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jeffrey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so too I have never done it. Just practice other more interesting things :)
2007-03-20 07:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by luvsexhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's a pain in the *** allright. Frankly I dont bother with that crap anymore.
2007-03-20 06:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋