you find out that your husband is watching porn , even when he prommised you he would never do it again .
2007-03-20 06:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why is his watching porn a problem? What problem do you have with it? Y'all might consider counseling to see why he is doing it if he "promised" not to.
I watch it. My wife watches it. I still adore her! Watching porn has nothing to do with our sex life.
2007-03-21 04:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself do not get upset if my husband watches porn, as we have watched it together many times, and I watch it too, when he is not around. I don't see the big deal about watching porn movies, but if he promised not to watch it and he broke a promise, that would bother me, that he broke the promise. I get more upset if he leered at a woman in my presence as that shows lack of respect for me, but all men do that, even the most innocent of men do at least that, you can't put blinders on them, they will look. The porn movies unless he is an addict, and affecting his ability to work, and be normal in all other senses let up on him, not the worst sin a man could commit.
2007-03-20 07:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel horrible. Ive been in that situation where i caught my husband watching porn behind my back....I was heartbroken. He was open with me about that early on in our relationship and i was ok with it....i didnt think that he would have to sneak. If your husband promised that he wouldnt do it again and he is than he isnt really sorry. I asked my husband to promise me not to do it again....he said that he cant promise that and that he would be lying to me if he did promise. Your husband is lying to you and you need to confront him about it. It doesnt matter if "guys are visually stimulated" or they are "just curious" it doesnt matter. What matters is that your husband is true to his word. It seems that he isnt and you should confront him, tell him how you feel about this and get answers. Your husband shouldnt be making promises he cant keep and hurting you more and more because of them. Good luck:)
2007-03-20 08:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this would really hurt and upset me badly if he was doing this after he promised me that he would stop. It would make me feel that he does not love me and even care about how i feel about things. I would ask him and wonder why he kept on doing this even though he promised he would stop. To me this is a form of cheating and it would make me fell unloved by him like he loves other women and porn more then he loves me and our marriage. I would have him seek counseling and help for it and also marriage counseling as well. If he refuses to get and seek help for this and for the marraige i would seperate from him and file for divorce if he would not stop and work on the marraige with me. this is how i would handle it and how i would feel about it if it were me in this situation.
2007-03-20 07:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER make my husband make such a silly promise. Guys are gonna be guys, and they are gonna watch porn. Might as well get use to the way it just is.
2007-03-20 10:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that wouldn't bother me men need visual stimulation and i see nothing wrong with it.
2007-03-20 07:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't care, as long as it doesn't cost our family financially or otherwise.
2007-03-20 07:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt, confused, pissed, inadequate
2007-03-20 08:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lorissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋