see my mother is very ill and about to die and she keeps geting stressed out over it and she is in a lot of pain but i am over 2000 miles away from her so i can't really do anything to help her out and her husbond is making it harder on her but see i am locked up so i can't do anything about it. any sugestions?
2007-03-20 06:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
see that is the point i am not trying to affend anyone but i bon't have a religion and i don't believe in an after life. and yes even though i am locked up i can still use the internet.
2007-03-20 06:48:21 · update #1
Pray.
2007-03-20 06:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by AleOmar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Robert,
maybe there is some family you can get in touch with to go check on her or visit with her. I'm sure she would find lots of comfort in reading letters from you also.
My mother died 1 1/2 yrs ago and her husband (not my dad) didn't do anything but make her feel like she was being a pain, when she was in pain. although i have family that came to visit her and help her out , i could only see her twice in her last 4 months. i did call her daily and made sure her husb was doing what he should, but he wasn't all what she expected he would be when she became ill..
Try to write and call as much as possible and tell her you love her before you hang up and in every letter. dying is a part of life that we must accept and prepare for. I believe our life is in our own hands.
2007-03-20 13:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, to be comforted by the scriptures. Psalms 37:10, 11 righteous will inherit the earth. Revelation 21:3,4 tears, sickness and death will be no more. There will be a resurrection of the righteous and unrighteous. Matthew 5:5 the mild tempered ones will inherit the earth.
2007-03-20 13:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I don't know how much contact you're able to have with her but when you do talk to her, let her talk to you about the situation. All you can really do is say your sorry or you are thinking about her. Is there anyone else around, friend or relative, that can step in for you? Could someone contact hospice? It's their mission to help people through the dying process. Again, I'm so sorry this is happening.
2007-03-20 13:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to take care of her and not to worry about anything else. Even if it means going to a hospice. She needs to be allowed to be at peace, pain free and with as much dignity as possible. My Mom passed in May and my thoughts are very much with you. There are no pat answers but know we all do the best we can and our loved ones know this.
2007-03-20 13:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by damommyxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being locked up you can get online?
Id try anyway possible to go be with her, She will be gone soon...
2007-03-20 13:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her amuch a possable tell her you care and will always love her. she needs to know that someone cares about her it would be the bests.
2007-03-20 13:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can be online in prison???
2007-03-20 13:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Priscilla R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋