Don't say give me sex because that works both ways! Lately most of the woman I have met don't know how to " F " anyway. They s*ck in bed! Give me a baby? Yea, so then they can leave and I'm stuck paying for a kid I hardly see... I don't think so! Give me love? When, most are straight up B-chez! Comments?
2007-03-20 06:42:23 · 21 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I'm sitting here shaking my head at the typical feminist answers.
It's all your fault when you get divorced for no reason other than she needs to "find herself" or perhaps greener pastures, takes your children and limits or prohibits your time with them while demanding you pay her for the privilege. This after taking everything you may have earned before, during and after the marriage (seen it happen many times).
What can be gained from marriage? An approximately 1 in 70 chance to grow old and share a life with someone that you love and loves you back. The odds are not good, however. When one considers what can be gained compared to what can be lost, it seems to me to be no contest.
What can you lose? Everything including your children and much of your paycheck for decades, perhaps your freedom or even your life. Many men have been jailed for "domestic abuse" that were entirely innocent, based on 'her' word only; many others have been killed in retaliation for past real or perceived abuses.
Any man marrying in this political climate is at best, a gambler betting on the long shot.
Oh, don't let the naysayers con you; it seems you struck a nerve.
You'll notice not one answered the question of what a woman can give you.
The reason should be clear.
EDIT: Now that Lara^mt has given an answer, I must amend my answer to "You'll notice that no Americans answered the question".
2007-03-20 09:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Phil #3 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
a woman can give
joy
a good self esteem
friendship
love
support after a long day at work
children
a nice warm meal
financial support
a warm hug before bed time
i am the only woman who answered this question
btw i am from Malta the only european country where the law for divorce has not yet passed, many maried couples seperate but the rate is not aas high as in the US and ive seen heaps of happily married people.
pls dont be so pessimistic and try to change ur perspective by looking at different wome surely there must be at least one decent woman around u.
i wish u the best of luck
tc
2007-03-20 18:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lara^mt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what's funny? A similar question was asked but by a woman. Every women seemed to side with her but now that a man like you is asking the question they are all against you!
2007-03-20 16:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Unless you change your ideas you will grow to be a lonely old man. You obviously start a relationship with the attitude of what you can get out of it and not what you can give, not the best basis. And not surprising the girls dump you if you behave like this.
2007-03-20 14:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Well you gotta testdrive a woman first. And then look at her mom. Is her mom still married, is her father happy in the marriage would he marry again ? If you get an yes to all 3 you might have a girl worth marrying at your hands. There are many good girls if you really want to find one. Why limit yourself to America to find love ? The world is big and full of women there will be a good nuturing woman for you too.
2007-03-20 13:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Bitter much?
Seriously, some people just aren't made for relationships. But I've found that you often meet that someone special when you expect it the least (especially when you're not looking for it).
Just live your life and be happy.
2007-03-20 13:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
You need to grow up.. Like Katt Williams says, if at 25 you are still wondering what's wrong will all those people out there and why can't they make you happy... well, maybe it's you! Maybe you are what needs changing...
2007-03-20 13:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by chellimerrett 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
The stench of your bitterness is assaulting me even through the internet. I hope you do stay away from women. You seem like a selfish jerk.
2007-03-20 14:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Then have you considered men? Perhaps what you need is some old fashioned male lovin lol. (I dont know what to say to you since you seem so dead set against women).
2007-03-20 16:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
This will pass and you know that. Telling you that is all I can do for you. It will pass, soon you will be writing a new chapter in that book called your life.
2007-03-20 19:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋