i played this mmorpg game 2 yrs ago.. i formed a guild together w/my real life boyfriend. a new player joined my guild and was so determined to become stronger.. he then became one of the strongest and well respected player in the game. we talk everyday in the game, on the phone, and on ym.. we became really good friends, and after a year of friendship we didn't realized, we are falling for each other. so, we became secret lovers (i have a real-life boyfriend and he have a real-life girlfriend as well). (i believe it was a change of heart) i love him more than i do with my real-life boyfriend.we decided to meet, we've celebrated the new year together and had a really good time.. we've been together for 6 days. we sleep together. now, we're both back at our hometowns and again, away from each other. i missed him a lot. we argue recently because i start to get jelous w/his real-life gf and he feels the same with my real-life bf. sometimes,i wanna give up..is this love worth fighting for?
2007-03-20 06:37:51 · 5 answers · asked by Caj 2 in Games & Recreation ➔ Video & Online Games
the mmorpg game is tantra.ph
you may IM me at danielle060706@yahoo.com
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this really happend.. i swear!
i am 20yrs. old... and the mmorpg guy is 23! and i feel really sad because we are not getting along lately because of the jelousy we both feel. i love him (at least that what i think)
2007-03-20 06:52:24 · update #1
Short answer: Yes... well, maybe...
It sounds like you emotionally moved on to a new love, but don't want to give up the security and physical proximity of your old love, your rl (real-life) bf. Obviously, I don't know if your guild lover feels the same as you, but I'd say that is what you really need to find out.
If you're both in the same place emotionally, then you have to be true to yourselves, break up with your bf/gf and date each other honestly. However, two distinct possibilities I see where you might not want to do that.
One is that perhaps your online feelings are only that, online. You have to consider whether or not you do want to be with him irl as well. Perhaps it was just a fling irl, and you can just maintain the online relationship with him, but keep your rl bf.
The other is if he's a player and really isn't as interested in you irl as you seem like you are. He might have only wanted a quick fling, and not want to pursue it further.
Ultimately, you have to decide for yourself what your rl feelings are for him, and talk to him about his rl feelings for you. I believe it's okay to have a fantasy life online as long as you don't get it mixed up with rl. The bad side is if they mix by accident or without both people wanting them to...
One personal anecdote: my main character, a 69 warrior, has a few online loves with whom I regularly quest and always flirt with. One of them, I'm interested in irl, but the others, I'm keeping it strictly online in the WoW... It's still fun to flirt and live vicariously through a 1-inch toon. That's the whole point behind RPGs after all, isn't it? (well, maybe not the flirting, but getting away to a fantasy world where you can do stuff you can't irl...)
2007-03-20 06:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by C D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While I do myself think there is only so many people in the world we will really love I would like to know your age. And I will assume you are 18-20 and if thats the case I dont think you should do anything. Break it off with the "mmorpg guy" and go back to your b/f. (i have a hard time thinking this is a real question but even so I am answering)
For me being a guy I would dump your *** on the spot. But your current "b/f" may be more forgiving.
Edit: With you being only 20 (only 20? I am only 18 but have my moments)
I would say do nothing. While you are old enough (or should be) to know if you really love someone in this case I dont think you do. First off you meet him though a game so that makes me think you more or less feel in love with his character then slowly moves that infactuation on to the real him.( you started talking to him outside the game then sooner or later in real life)
I don't really have much else to say. You should be old enough to know how you really feel. But from my own thoughts I think it is more lust or even as I said above misplaced love (not sure on real term)
2007-03-20 06:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by deathfromace 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO. Do not throw away a perfectly good real life relationship over some guy that plays a game. IT IS NOT WORTH IT! A real life relationship is a LOT more fulfilling then an online one, trust me I have learned from personal experiance. (by the way tell me all the games you play online and if we have any in common we could mabye meet in them? griffin237@yahoo.com)
2007-03-20 06:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nameless 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i recommend RAGNAROK , because that's performed global, or, in case you want portable chatting, then i recommend you both purchase nintendo ds', and then purchase a pokemon: diamond or pearl(or in spite of style of NDS video games that has WiFi accesible) then making use of the WiFi potential of the Nintendo DS, you both can conflict and chat/communicate with one yet another, in spite of the undeniable fact that i'm no longer particular if the Philippines is portion of the GTS or WiFi .. pilipino din kase ako ..
2016-12-02 07:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by signorelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C D FTW!
2007-03-22 04:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Onadrad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋