As a black man, I alway wondered why most black people than any other ethnic community would wrongfully assume that a person is a homosexual, or look forward to injured a person's reputation by telling lies on them without making a effort prove it because he does not a have girlfriend. Remember, I am not a racist or prejudice; I just consider myself a person that is honest and caring! Therefore, I am expressing my experiences, and wonder if someone can just give me a reasonable answer for this situation.
2007-03-20 06:18:11 · 8 answers · asked by N.T. 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Who knows? My brother never had a girlfriend in his life, heck he never even went on a date until he was 31. Now at age 35, he has been happil married for 2 years and is trying to start a family as we speak. Everyone does things in their own time. Cut men some slack if they opt to stay single for longer.
2007-03-20 06:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by martidom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are having sex by 16. Most people think having a b/f, g/f is the single most important thing in life. Therefore a 22 yr old w/o a g/f has to be gay.
Have the courage of your convictions and wait until you're ready.
2007-03-20 06:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 no - 44 with a history of no female in the picture? Yes. wrong yes - but people do it anyway.
Most people make stuff up because they are unhappy with their own life and feel the need to pick on others.
2007-03-20 06:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no imbalance of ppl who assume someone is Gay in any SPECIFIC cultures/races. These ppl exist frequently in all aspects of life.
Why? Gossiping usually happens because one seeks credibility. Some ppl point fingers because they see similar traits in themselves. Some ppl are just plain mean. It wld be great if stuff like that doesn't matter... like... we just pass them off as ignorant... AND... who cares if someone thinks I'm Gay even tho they're wrong?
2007-03-20 06:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by front door 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Those who spend their time worrying who is or is not gay are, in my experience, most likely to suffer from fears of their own homosexual tendencies. Be happy with who you are, gay staight, trans, or bi-sexual and you will lead a happier and healthier life.
2007-03-20 06:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by marduk D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well areyou? just kidding The bigger question should be why do care so much what people think once you are comfortable with self all these other things are irrelevant.
2007-03-21 01:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ynot! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my experience is that prejudice is apparent in all cultures and colours.
some day I hope no one will care. 22 & no girlfriend? I wldn't gv it another thought! we all say things out of love OR fear.
Note: OH cchristylove.... how cld u?
2007-03-20 06:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by choose happiness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's silly huh? Just be you, forget what they think. You'll end up with a supermodel one day being true to yourself.
2007-03-20 06:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋