me and my bf are going 2 have sex soon we both feel that its ready but i dont know how to relax because if i dont relax it will hurt so how do i relax?
2007-03-20 06:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by Chloe. 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Just think about how much you love this guy and how sharing this moment together will bring you closer in a new way. he loves you and will be gentle, your taking your relationship to the next step. Congrats
2007-03-20 10:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Hooney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massages are a great way to relax each other before you commence. Get some lovely oils and play some quiet music and just enjoy each other. Also try to have a lot of foreplay first this will help relax you and get you ready for what comes next. Good Luck
2007-03-21 00:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only relax if you really are ready, you'll be surprised at how things happen. Don't let the relaxing thing worry you too much, just enjoy..!
2007-03-20 06:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nicky T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you're really really certain you want to do this first. There's no going back, and I have yet to hear anyone say they were glad they had sex at whatever age they did, unless they waited until they were married. But, if you really think you must, lots of kissing and touching and foreplay will help you get in the mood. If it's your first time, it will hurt anyway, and you will bleed, so don't be surprised.
2007-03-20 06:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by hermione_speaks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to give you a full body message with oil. Light some candles. Play some music and have a couple of shots of tequilla. I guarantee you will be relaxed, but first start with your mind because if you care about him and he cares about you and you're sure you are ready everything will be ok. Good luck and enjoy. Please don't forget to use protection.
2007-03-20 06:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by krispykreme335 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure this is right for you because this is a very special time and there is no going back once its done hopefully you are both at a sensible age try relaxing and kissing it helps but only if you really really want this don`t be pressered in to it
2007-03-20 06:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by sweettinks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are as ready as you say , why are you having to ask us.
When you are ready it will feel right and you won't need yahoo to tell you that.
Don't rush.
2007-03-20 06:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by isleofskye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do any thing wrong with ur self. sex is bad and may cause u tensions and other things
2007-03-20 06:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your self you love this man and tell him ot be gentle?
2007-03-20 06:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by woooah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay there thats what 95% of women do anyways!!!
2007-03-20 06:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by dovera1c 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋