ok, me and my friend decided to buy 2 hamsters and share the costs and now they have had babies. We have 2 left and I have found a home for them and they are going to pay for them. But she has also found a home for them and they said she still has to pay for the food and bedding and other supplies. So i'm stuck in the middle as it won't be fair to give them to 1 and not the other! So i suggested they have 1 each. but she's being ignorant about it and says shes coming to get them 2nite so they can go to the home she found for them. I don't want us to fall out over it. HELP!!
2007-03-20 05:35:05 · 8 answers · asked by sxcsam92 2 in Pets ➔ Other - Pets
That is the only problem when doing this kind of things with a friend, you will always have some kind of problems, and you will not always agree over everything.
If it was me i would of given 1 each to the other people.
See if you can come to some kind of agreement about this, if you friend still insists on having both, you might want to rethink your partnership over this.
who's home are the hamster's at?
You might be better to see if she will let you buy her out, and do it by yourself, especially if you want to keep on breeding your hamster's.
I hop eyou get to work it out.
2007-03-20 05:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then she can pay for it but she cannot expect you to help pay for the bedding and stuff! She has made this deal so she can pay for the stuff. Just gently explain to the people that you said yes to that your friend had already promised them to someone and due to lack of communication, there was a mix up and apologise. Tell your friend once the hamsters have gone that you felt she was very selfish throughout this whole situation and NEVER mix business with friendship - it always ends up messy! x
2007-03-20 12:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving them 1 each does seem the logical thing to do. Try and persuade your friend to this.
2007-03-22 11:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by james c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part with all the hamsters, hence you don't fall out with friends
2007-03-23 13:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for visitation rights
I mean you did help care for them right
or go buy 2 more hamsters to replace your loss
2007-03-20 12:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Raymond F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being unfair. Only fair way to do this is let them have one each.
2007-03-20 12:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy simple one baby is yours to deal with the other is her responsibility thats how u started this thats how u will have to finish it or just freakin let her take them both, its up to u
2007-03-20 12:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by L2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id split the diffrence depending how many babies they had, I would split giving them away
2007-03-20 13:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by gypsygurl59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋