He like to have sex with me in his shirt, and are obess with rear entry sex, which I don't allow him to. Doe he have a problem? we've been married for 8 years.
2007-03-20 05:22:34 · 11 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why don't you just ask him 'what's going on?'. Tell him what you like and don't like. Maybe he wants a little variety and doesn't know what to do. Maybe ya'll could find a book about normal sex. Different ways may make thing more interesting for both of you. Whatever you decide should be mutual.
2007-03-20 05:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gender confusion?
No, I don't know of anything in what you mentioned that indicates gender confusion. If he were having sex with you while wearing your clothing, that would be gender confusion.
I think what you mean to ask is, is he really straight -- and the answer is probably. Many, many, many totally straight men I know prefer anal sex to vaginal when they can get it -- they just prefer it with women, not men.
A problem? No offense, but only that you are a prude in my opinion -- and when one partner isn't, that can be a pain.
Regards,
Reyn
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To javo -- not particularly. I'm an openly gay man who has been with his partner for 15 years and works in a professional occupation. Trust me when I say that there are far more things in the sexual universe than lots of you seem to think -- you live once, enjoy it.
2007-03-20 12:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rear entry or anal sex? I don't get the shirt portion of it, but after 8 years, he may simply want to do something a little different.
2007-03-20 12:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you describe his ways of having sex with you as his wife is unheard of. It seems he has a problem. Why don't you discuss this matter in a good mood? Intimate dialog between husband and wife is important in order to keep your life together going. Try to be more compassionate to him. He might really have a problem.
2007-03-20 12:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Binnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the shirt thing makes me think he has an ego and likes the way he smells a bit too much
but the rear entry.... maybe he likes it tight????
2007-03-20 12:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by CasperNightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obsessed with rear entry because you won't give it to him. the shirt is probably cause he thinks it looks sexy
2007-03-20 13:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He listens to to much Howard Stern.
2007-03-20 12:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh,isn't it that obvious yet? what's next? singing Cher song,do you Believe.?
2007-03-20 13:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give more info..like has he done it your whole marriage?? And maybe you should ask him ...he is your husband after all!
2007-03-20 12:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has been watching to much porn.
2007-03-20 12:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋