I am the total cancer woman, I'm controlling, caring, family oriented and I care alot about my boyfriend and love him alot. I get very ownership of him, I need to learn how to control myself. I feel really over protective and I get over bearing at times. I don't know what to do or how can I control this part of me?
2007-03-20 05:19:31 · 6 answers · asked by misscancer10 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I would suggest you learn yoga, meditation, breathing exercises. Just so you can learn to pause, and think, before you speak or do something. And also release some pent up energy and tension.
Try to think empathy, that is, ask yourself "How would I feel if someone said or did this to me?".
I know you may at times have a sharp tongue and yet be very sensitive to what is said to you. But just in asking, you are on the right track because it shows you care and don't want to hurt anyone.
We have two ears, and one mouth. That means we should listen more than we speak. That's what I would say to you. Listen more.
Your need to control isn't necessarily a bad thing. You just need to find an outlet for it. A use for it. Like a good project or something. Maybe ask yourself, what could I control that doesn't include controlling another person against their will?
I guess the key is awareness, observation and responsibility.
2007-03-20 12:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bobby the K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancer women will always struggle with control problems. You must make a choice and start thinking about yourself in the shoes of the person you are trying to control..Would I like this? Try to be logical and calm. Controlling stuff has it benefits but has so many many more downfalls. Perhaps you can learn how to control good things in your life like..I am goning to control how much fruit and vegies I consume and control the fat content.. My step daughter did something like this and she is a cancer... It works for her...she makes sure her children eat healthy and etc.. and it satisfies that need to control!
2007-03-20 12:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by reggiethecokegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am also a cancer woman who is overbearing at times and overprotective, loves with my whole heart and ends up pushing everyone away from me because of it. i haven't found a way to control it, I believe that it is more to do with the people in your life, if they can see u are like this, try to deal with it as much as possible, tell u when u are going too far in a nice and easy way, then allow u time to calm down it will help. also finding people who won't put up with it at all forces you to control it... but only outwardly when u are with them, the rest of the time u are frustrated from ur pent up feelings... i dont recommend it.. its been hell for me so far!
2007-03-20 14:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by running_lostnalone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Cancer and I hate Cancer men because they are overbearing. I don't feel that I am. I'm more nonchalant. I guess I must have a Sagitarius or Leo moon or something. Best bet would be to date someone who acts like you,(another Cancer) because that will get on your nerves and you will begin to change.
2007-03-20 12:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by brinkmont 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you sound just like me
im cancer ...... just the same
as for how to get those habits in check i haven't got a clue, its so difficult
i find i have no control over what i do sometimes, i try so hard but its just overwhelming sometimes
2007-03-20 12:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥gigi♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh God !!
I'm Cancer women too ...
if u got the answer please inform me
2007-03-20 13:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by adiga_5ijabz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋