i guess you can say this starts off when im young and skinny but now that im 17 i feel very bad about myself it all goes when my mom does drugs and i feel that she should be around more but im very blessed that i have a grandma who took care of me from day one. I guess it all starts in middle school when i used to get teased but i really didnt let it bother me and had friends to hang with but one day when i get teased to much i felt embrassed and ran to the bathroom and cried my eyes out but there was this teacher who told me that her daughter use to be picked on the i should care about what people think of me. During high school i lost all of my friends and i think negative things about myself that i just i would disappear i have very low self esteem no social life no friend in the world except a boy im overweight trying to lose weight i dont know what to think about my self i try to put positive things in my mind but i seem to cant. Can any of you people can give me advice ?
2007-03-20 05:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by airplanes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might try to make "Friendly pride and good style" your motto. You might also concentrate on studying hard. You might try to eat more healthy natural food and so also do a lot more of your favorite sport.
You might try to seek the company of, and be friends with, people that your deem better than yourself, and so you should also exert some sincere effort to pay the expenses that may be related to your being in their company.
It would be of utmost importance for you to share warm feelings with one of the opposite sex, and so also to try to caress some vision of a brighter future together.
"Friendly pride and good style" may be a good starting point for you. Maybe you have to investigate what "pride" may be, and so also what "good style" may be, and so find instances of this in your local culture.
Then you may warmly caress the idea of hope, and hope that the good turning point is near at hand, not much beyond the nearby hills of your bright vision.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 05:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by pasquale garonfolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm overweight.
i've been depressed, i've tried to kill myself, i've tried thorwing up my food.
I'm happy now. How did i get to be happy?
my friends. how did i mke friends?
i joined clubs. which i know may be akward at first, but thats how u meet people. how did i decide which clubs? i know i love to write and i love to sing nd i love art. so i went from there. it sounds like u have a knack for writibg. maybe join the school paper. if u like to sing join a choir. if ur shy, ('i'm shy) it may be scary. but jut do it. no one will remember your first day. i've been the new girls all my life so u get used to it. but if join a club, u'lll most likely find one person there u really get along with and u work from there.
another thing that makes me feel great about myself is exercising.
i go to the gym a few nights a week. and the adrenaline rush is great, i love the control and i love pushim myself.
do what u love to do.it'll make u feel better.
write out r feelings in a journal. that helps. cause ur letting it out. put it online in anonymous blog and get feedback or keep it to urself. but that really gets a load of ur shoulder.
just be pootive. people read off of u. if u feel happy ppl will precieve u as happy and more approachable.
i hope that helps.
2007-03-20 07:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by dna_lih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, being a teen is a confusing and difficult one. Your foundation to start off with, wasn't grounded. So you have to stand on your own two feet and make it solid. With each experience you have, you will get to know yourself better. You have to start somewhere first. Make a list of do's and don't's about yourself. Your dislikes and likes about yourself. Fix all the don't's. Make a goal and stick to it. If you like yourself well enough, (love yourself) people will be drawn to you. It's like the laws of attraction. we attract what and who we are towards us. This is all in how your thoughts run. Good brings good and bad, negative stuff comes back to you. This is a fact of life. Grab on to your dreams of who you want to be, and go with it-positively. Don't let any bad thoughts stay. You have your own choices in life, pick the ones that will make you succeed. Your the only one who can make yourself happy.
2007-03-20 05:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by uniquelyours19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homie, supply up letting people deliver you down. Dude lemme enable you realize some thing, I extremely have perfect ladies who're intimidated by utilising me, i think of basically reason Im sturdy finding right, and a i'm optimistic. and that i'm getting a kick how they have trouble lookin at me, and that they've been on condition that lil smile, and kinda look away or placed their head down. yet what they dont understand is i'm a chess nerd. i like Vegeta offa Dragonball Z. I play on line video games like Wyvern and Neopets.. and that they are intimidated!!! in case your at school, and people mess with you, basically make it with the aid of, reason itll be extremely difficult to advance your self assurance until eventually you in effortless terms commence whipping everyones ***.. that gets you no the place. yet! as quickly as your outta college, you aint gonna see none of them foos, and can build a popularity from scratch, and entirely take great factor approximately it. yet whilst your at school.. and people mess with you.. the two you shaggy dog tale extra perfect than them, or grow to be a bully lol.. I hate to assert that, yet its the only way people will supply up bringing u down at school. ****** college is crammed with retarded bastards that choose slapped I ******* swear dude.
2016-10-02 11:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE GOING TROUGH DEPRESSION IF YOU LISTEN ON WHAT PEOPLE SAY TO YOU AND BELIEVE THEM YOU WILL ALWAYS FEEL THAT WAY.I HAVE BEEN TEASED SO MANY TIMES AND STILL BEING TEASED FOR BEING OVER WEIGHT,YOU CANT RUNAWAY FROM PROBLEMS THEY ARE EVERY WHERE ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS ACTUALLY STICK UP FOR URESELF DONT SHOW PEOPLE YOUR WEAKNESS OR THEY WILL ALWAYS ATTACK YOU WHERE IT MOSTLY HURT YOU,WHAT DOESENT KILL YOU ACTUALLY MAKE YOU STRONGER.TRY TO LOSE WEIGHT NATURALLY,LIFT WEIGHTS GO JOGGING,DO IT FOR YOUR SEF ESTEEM AND PROVE ALL THOSE NEGATIVE PEOPLE YLOU CAN DO IT.I .LOST 20 PONDS LAST SUMMER BECAUSE I KNEW I COULD DO IT ,YOU CAN LOSE EVEN MORE.FIMD A BUDDY WHO CAN KEEP YOU MOTIVATED OR A DOG.I TAKE MY DOG RUNNING WITH ME HE IS THE ONE WHO PUSHES ME TO RUN,WHEN HE PULLS ON THE LEASH I NOW THAT MEANS I CANT GIVE UP.DONT FEEL BAD I CAN HELP YOU AND CAN GIVE YOU BETTER ADVICE IF YOU WANT TOO.YOU CAN EMAIL ME WHENEVER YOU NEED ANYTHING.GOOD LUCK
2007-03-20 05:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass. I'm 16 and I'm going through the same thing but I have friends but sometimes I question who my real friends are. Because I have this group of friends and I'm the leader and we invite whoever we want into our group of friends but sometimes I wonder if that is even enough.
2007-03-20 05:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have time to read your question so sorry..........
2007-03-20 05:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋