I gave him to my mom so I could go into the military and get a good life started and now she refuses to le me see my own son? Will I get him back soon or will I never see him again till he's 18?
2007-03-20 05:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by reggiethecokegirl 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Ok those are all good answers but I did give him up for adoption to her per military policy because I was a single parent with absent father. I have hired several lawyers and I cannot do anything about it. As far as communication that would only work with a rational person... and we are talking about a bipolar screamer! Not logical or rational at all. Her main reasons for not giving him back is I am not stable and I live in sin because Iam not married and live with my boyfriend!
2007-03-20 05:29:18 · update #1
I wish there was mending fences to be done...ya'll think deeper cause in order to mend fences with a psycho I have to compromise who I am. I have to say I was wrong, I am crazy, I am stupid, and admit sh*t I did when I was 16 hurt her.. I am not going to do that sh*t...I am not willing to do that.
2007-03-21 03:53:07 · update #2
You need to take your mom to court and get your custody of son back.
2007-03-20 05:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is not going to give him up and she would keep him from you just to hurt you, In her mind not thinking she is being mean she thinks she is doing the rite thing, If you want to see your son you need to mend fences with your Mom, Other wise you see him till he is 18
2007-03-20 21:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by mystictoad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gave him... like to watch over or Gave , like she adopted him from you. I cant believe she wont let you see him that's not right. If she adopted him technically you cant get him. Maybe if you get a lawyer you could work something out. But if she was just caring for him while you were in the military he is YOURS. you have every right to get him back and you should.
2007-03-20 05:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by *Aimzie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she should allow you to see him,you did what was best and entrusted her with raising him.H?e should know his real mother no matter what and decide later on in life if you did the right thing out of love.You can always get a lawyers advice on whether or not you should start proceedings,but if he is legally adopted you may not get your rights back.
2007-03-23 22:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by sonja h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication (conversation) is the answer to all your problems. Open lines of communication, be willing to "get" what she says, what her "experiences" may be, what her needs are that she wants to communicate etc.........she's probably afraid you will take him away from her, that she wont be apart of his growing up, that she wont be apart of his life so she wants to hang on. It's up to you to open these lines of honest, authentic communication, assurances, promises, and definite arrangements will go along way to smoothing out the rough edges, if you know what I mean?
2007-03-20 05:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋