What if you never get married?
2007-03-20 05:08:03 · 18 answers · asked by Macy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not to mention he could be aweful in bed.
2007-03-20 05:09:25 · update #1
The point is to respect your body through out your life and give it to the worthy man who waited until he married you.
2007-03-20 05:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by E! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason is that what you're giving at that time is a special gift that both you and your spouse will appreciate for the rest of your married lives. It shows that you wanted your spouse to be the only one to ever have the pleasure of intimacy with you. That is so rare today that it shows real commitment to another person. As far as whether he will or won't be any good in bed, when two people really and truly love each other you will never be disappointed. As long as you both are in tune with each other mind, body, and soul, intimacy will become better each time you share that time. It just takes an open mind and willingness to please each others needs. You can look at it as either a love life of passion or just a sexual act to gain just your own satisfaction. The second option won't give your marriage much fulfillment and it won't last long. The first option will give you a lifetime of marital bliss.
2007-03-20 05:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the benefit is that your first time is supposed to be special and fufilling. They never tell you that it is awkward, uncomfortable, and sometimes even downright painful. You also have the added bonus of knowing there have been no others, no risk of STD's or baby momma drama.
In my opinion, I'm glad I didn't wait. I was well aware of what was going on with both myself and my future husband when we were first together. I was more able to enjoy myself and not worry about the weirdness of it. I don't think that it is any more special that one night then it would be on a Tuesday right before Boston Legal. It will be remembered no matter when you decide to do it.
2007-03-20 05:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For various purposes: beliefs, self-respect, mutual respect, to consummate the marriage, for the beautiful experience it will be. There is nothing wrong with waiting until marriage, in fact, it is a very good idea. And if you don't ever get married, the time may come that you may end up doing it anyway outside of marriage.
2007-03-24 04:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that waiting is a very outdated perspective, but I do know a few couples who did wait because of spiritual beliefs. 3 out of the 4 couples I know that waited, are still together, and that fourth couple that isnt... Well.. My friend was still the virgin, and her husband had been around the block a WHOLE LOT, and he ended up cheating on her when she was pregnant. So, I dont think that was really a good start anyways.
2007-03-20 10:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it's going to be greater effective for you emotionally and mentally and bodily to attend. i be attentive to it sort of feels like such an casual factor everybody does besides the fact that if it is not. distinctive thoughts and drama incorporate intercourse, this is lots greater intimate than people enable on. additionally, in case you bypass to med college, relationships won't be an selection for awhile. lecturers are rigorous and while you're having intercourse with a guy or woman, their desires should not be met. have faith me. you ought to undergo in strategies, intercourse isn't platonic this is dynamic. it is not merely you and a penis or him getting off. you're dealing with each and every thing of that guy or woman to no longer point out the variables of his sexual historic previous, how he will sense after intercourse or the way you will sense. you rather open your self as much as alot of opportunities to be harm, deserted or disregarded. intercourse isn't incorrect or undesirable, besides the fact that if it rather is a miles greater mature factor than people and the media make it out to be. i might say wait on marriage on the grounds which you be attentive to he loves you, you have faith him,, he won't bypass away, if a being pregnant happens you and the infant are shield, you do no longer ought to have the humiliating walk of shame and that i think of there is something romantic approximately saving your self for somebody you be attentive to you will care approximately adequate to stay at the same time with your finished life.
2016-10-19 04:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I believe it should be kept for the man you love the most and decide to marry with though the idea is a bit dated. It's the symbol of mutual trust and respect, in my culture. Of course, the man you are married to is not necessarily the most suitable person in your lifetime.
2007-03-20 05:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by big-faced cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer: Religious purposes
If you're not religious, then the only reason is to give your spouse a gift. Then he might feel more special.
Although, if you ask most men; an experienced women is better that one with no experience.
2007-03-20 05:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by tHEwISE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU could be awful in bed too!
Practice makes perfect...
It is a gift you give your spouse...an intimacy that shouldn't be given away to every Tom, Dick, and Harry. (pun intended)
2007-03-20 05:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the benefits are knowing you've only slept with each other, making things more special and that even if it's bad, you have nothing to compare it to and your whole life to improve it.
2007-03-20 05:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋