At the begining of the school year my bestfriend told me that he was going to ask me out but he didnt do it b/c his friend told him that he was going to do it. Ever since then I have been thinking about what he had told me, then I stopped thinking about it for awhile but then I started to think about it again so now I am back where I started. Well I told my friends about it and they told me to make a list of things me and my B.F. do together and what me and my bestfriend do together so I did and me and my bestfriend do more than me and my B.F. Or my B.F. ignores me and my bestfriend doesnt, and I am starting to like my bestfriend more than my B.F. I really need help on what to do about it. Oh yeah my bestfriends G.F. is also my friend.
2007-03-20 04:55:43 · 3 answers · asked by Monkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be open and honest with both. If either cannot handle it, then you need to decide how you deal with it, leave or stay.
Being open and honest with both is the only option that is viable, long term.
What you are entering into, assuming they both are OK with it, is a polyamorous relationship. Poly relationships require a lot of communication, a lot of work, but are very rewarding. Research it on the web.
My last relationship was with my bf and gf. I was fortunate in that they loved each other as well as me. I wish you luck in your endeavor.
2007-03-20 05:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like your b.f. that much because he ignores you most of the time then its not worth being with him. now your bestfriend has a g.f. first you need to fid out how things are goig with them two and then you take i from there.
2007-03-20 12:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by sexypinklips053004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a very tough love life at the moment
2007-03-20 12:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋