given the fact that I just found out a couple weeks ago she cheated back in Jan.
2007-03-20 04:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by Flip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Given the fact she told me a couple weeks ago she cheated back in Jan.
2007-03-20 04:51:28 · update #1
married 3 yrs.
I say cheated but she had kissed her boss (still cheating in my book)
2007-03-20 04:56:03 · update #2
How long have you been married???
Doesn't sound like you have any reason to celebrate. Cheating is a deal breaker in my book.
2007-03-20 04:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is the time to start repairing that,that mean to
take a break from the though of that,because she is sleeping
and you aren,t worry about it,just can,t remember you can,t
take it back so repair it and your anniversary is a start,make
a big deal out of it,Listen I know you are hurt and you don,t
want to give in to this,but you are actually damaging yourself
with this because it,s not healthy for you,love will heal through
this process you have inside of you to make you strong
and overcomer in this just take a day at a time,now even
if you have dinner,at restaurant,or a play then do that.
kisses,and hug,even let the tears flow so you both can
be happy again,I want happiness for you man,so release
your tears and let go,GOD DID NOT MAKE NO PUNK!
so he wouldn,t mind if you shed a couple.
2007-03-20 04:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to salvage the relationship, then you should make your anniversary a big event. She is obviously looking for attention and affection outside the home for a reason.
2007-03-20 05:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourselves an anniversary gift...start seeing a marriage counselor if you want to have any future anniversaries and fewer problems. Celebrate your anniversary as you would normally and move forward. Being willing to forgive and work on your problems or be willing to divorce.
2007-03-20 04:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by curious74432 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dispensation for your anniversary should be inversely disproportionate to your disposition after discovering the adulteration. So, if you have forgiven her and moved on... celebrate. If you are DONE with the marriage, it's just another day.
2007-03-20 04:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by BartenderWJT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt make a big deal out of it at all. Maybe next year if she keeps her legs closed but she doesn't deserve anything as of now.
2007-03-20 04:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya invite the one she cheated with that will be the best surprize
2007-03-20 04:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋