2007-03-20 04:44:34 · 5 answers · asked by faith f 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Approach him/her about it. Ask point blank "is there something I'm doing that could be improved upon?" And say, "I'm asking because I get the impression that you don't like my work."
I would leave the personal side out of it. Saying "you don't like me personally" would lead the focus away from the job itself.
Keep it professional.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 04:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by hcwwur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish I knew this answer, I worked with my boss who ended up terminating me after 15+ years, and never to this day knew for sure why he didn't personally like me. And I say personally because my job was always completed to the satisfaction of the company. I believe it is best to look else where for work, I wish I had many years ago, instead of being jobless this far down the road.
Some people you just cannot make like you no matter what you change or do. Believe me I tried all approaches, and it was hard at times to swallow my pride, and in the end accomplish nothing.
Your boss has personal issues with you, and if people co-workers around him give him feedback into his personal feelings about you, you will never live this down. Co-workers fuel the fires so to say sometimes, whether it's intentional or not.
2007-03-20 12:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay at that job, figure out why the boss doesn't like you. Ask for performance feedback - "how am I doing, where can I improve?" Most bosses appreciate being asked. Ask co-workers who appear to have a good relationship with the boss what they are doing, what positive feedback they've received, and then try to emulate them.
If you don't like the job, the easy answer is to find a new one with a boss that you can get along with.
2007-03-20 11:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he does not like you? He only has to like your work and communicate with you professionally. Maybe you were expecting a friendly boss. Personally, I prefer an intelligent and professional one. The quality of work and environment is so much better when is business like only. Personally, my social life is outside of my job.
On the other hand if it bothers you that much, than ask him directly. Ask something like this: I have the impression that you dislike something about me; would you please tell me so that I can make improvements. Do I need work on the quality of my work? or Do I need to improve my personality? Be open, do not over-react and if you do not like the feedback.....Start looking for another job while you have one.
2007-03-20 12:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and get plastered with booze and weed. that should loosen up the tension.
2007-03-20 11:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋