my GF doesnt want to ahve sex often like i do ...what i can do ?she is also jalouse because i have many offer from girls who are attracted to me....help...we could heve sex like twice a months, living together.she has excuses,excuses....solution please....
2007-03-20 04:43:59 · 21 answers · asked by prof z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My friend i have been in the same situation that you are going through right now..i bet you that she was sexually abused as a little girl..my ex never wanted sex either and she was soooo hot it was hard to not want her.she was sexually abused when she was in her early teens..we went to see a proffessional to get help and he told me that 99% or women who are abused this way at a young age ..are usually not very interested in sex when they get older.So there is nothing much you can do about it.You have to respect he decision to not be a sexually aggresive person.so you have only two choices at this point..either live with it. and see if she will get help or leave her..I didn't want to leave my ex..she is the one who decided to end it saying she felt guilty not giving me the sex i wanted..so talk to her instead of asking the advice of people who have no ideal ..who she is or what her past was like..
2007-03-20 05:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by rcbrokebones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, move out (or make her move out), and start taking up all the offers you are getting from others. Easy.
Why are you living with her? The only reason you should live with a woman is because you are engaged, and you need to make sure you can stand living together. Otherwise, you shouldn't have women living at your place or even leaving her belongings there. Just try living alone for a while, and just casually date a few different women. That way, if one is tired or doesn't feel like having a good time, you can just call another. Problem solved.
2007-03-20 07:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off maybe it's because you are such a moron maybe use the check spelling when you write something. Anyways
it sounds to me like all you care about is sex. I will tell you one thing if you ever are thinking of getting married one day
you must get over this obsession with sex because it will just ruin any chance of having a meaningfull relationship with someone. Maybe she wants to save some of her sex life for marriage ever thought of that have you proposed how long you been dating if over a year then what you waiting for? Some woman are just not into sex like us guys they can go without that is why alot of us guys end up using our hands.
Because a real man don't cheat.
2007-03-20 07:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to make the choice. Do i really love this girl? If you do you won't cheat on her and you will talk to her and try to work things out. I found when you do more for your girlfriend like around the house and run the errands and pay the bills, it will give her more time to relax, therefore; more in the mood. Yes, you are going to have to work for it =P. If you don't talk to her and tell her that you just aren't getting what you need. Good luck man......oh and i also hear that sometime girls just don't like sex as much as men do
2007-03-20 04:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by body of a buddha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a good idea to tell her about the "offers" you get from other women.... it will only make the situation worse. something has to change, because obviously whatever you have tried or are trying isn't working. maybe you should just lay off for a while and don't mention this topic. for women, if the man keeps pushing an issue we will avoid it even more. after a few weeks try to compliment her more and be sincere about it, bring her a nice card home and leave it somewhere she will find it, cook her a romantic dinner or take her out. the key is to make her feel special and emotionally attached to you... which will lead to her having stronger sexual feelings towards you. i hope this will help.
2007-03-20 04:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh I am sorry :( That sucks! If she is on birth control that sometimes decreases her sex drive. Otherwise I just think there are sexual people in this world and there is just some who feel they could get the same pleasure through something else, like cooking.
2007-03-20 04:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice from a married man with a wife that does not want sex either: talk to her to find out her needs or desires, and why she does not care to be intimate with you. If talking does not work, it is time to move on -- just as I will be doing.
2007-03-20 05:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get a new girlfriend.
2. Pleasure yourself.
3. Stop talking about how many offers you get from other women.
2007-03-20 04:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if there is a physical problem with sex, if there is, suggest she se a doctor. If not figure out why she isn't into it. If there is no reason then you need to decide if you want to stay with her and just rely on yourself, or find someone that is more compatible sexually.
2007-03-20 04:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, that is not funny talk to her if you love her to try to make things work maybe is something wrong with her and she may need professional help. and if not move on but first try to get some help for her
2007-03-20 04:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋