2007-03-20 04:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by whirlwhiz2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesn't always go wrong unless you really didn't know them to begin with. Picking the wrong person to fall in love with amounts to not knowing them fully to begin with. Many people get to know someone in the bedroom first and think because they please them sexually that everything else will fall into place. If you don't get to know what's in a person's heart you find later that the person may not have the same conviction for commitment, their desires in life aren't the same as yours, and they may be out just to use you for sexual gratification. It's painful to go through life getting burned over and over again, but by using the time at the beginning of a relationship to learn about what a person is inside and refraining from intimacy until you know who they really are you can avoid the unnecessary heartache later. Good Luck - your heart will heal.
2007-03-20 05:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is next to impossible to forget the one we love. It's easy to forget things like where the car keys are, or something else mundane. When we have someone in our lives that cause so much emotion (good and bad), our memory is not going to forget that easily.
Just remember we're supposed to have good feelings, and bad feelings. You can feel better by engaging in upbuilding activities that will distract you from the bad feelings.
Also remember that it dosen't always go wrong. It is more likely to go wrong though, if you're determined to be unhappy. So don't let that happen.
2007-03-20 04:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by joellyn a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to forget the one we love cause the heart does not understand logic. It only wants what it desires. Most importantly the heart can never forget the one person that made it smile from inside.
2007-03-20 04:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to forget the ones we love. I still love my ex husband, I would never go back to him but I love him for helping me make our two beautiful children. Sometimes I wonder what it would of been like if we were still together.
2007-03-20 14:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by berly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help Me Forget The Love of My Life
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I met this guy 3 years ago and we fell for each other straight away. We were in love. He is the only person i have ever loved. After 6 months of being together everything fell apart, for one he was far away, secondly my parents didn’t know about it, thirdly his dad died on the 6th month and lastly my parents were getting divorced. There was nothing wrong with our relationship at all, but there was with our life and the fact that there was no way i could tell my mum or anyone that i liked him...
So on the 6th month of being together when everything went wrong, i told him that we have to finish and that there’s no point going on because we would never be together forever because of the fact that i can’t tell my mum how i met him and that i talk to him.
We couldn’t stop talking to each other even then and he kept texting me and ringing me and telling me he loves me and needs me. I felt the same and even more strongly for him but it couldn’t go on. My mum found out about us and she was so angry. i love my mum and would never want to hurt her. So i stopped replying to the texts and never spoke to him again. This was 3 years ago, and since then I’ve not gotten in any relationship because i love him and will love him till i die. i told him this before but what I need now is some help. i don’t know how to forget him. i think about him all the time. When our songs are on the TV i remember him. i can’t forget him but need to.
Our relationship was perfect, and i know it was true love. but i haven’t heard from him since 3 years and i don’t think i want to because I’m trying to get over him and forget but just can’t. I DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH HIM BECAUSE I PROMISED MY MUM I’D NEVER TALK TO HIM OR ANY GUY BEHIND HER BACK AGAIN AND I WOULD NEVER LIE TO MY MUM.
Help me to try and forget (if i can) the only man i love in my life.
Just me
Answer:
Dear Just me,
What has happened is sad, but you will have to deal with it.
If you are sure that it is a dead end, then control yourself and do anything in order to forget him; get busy and do something that will fill most of your time. And with the passing of time, you will heal.
You are only 18, and you have years to come, that will be full of millions of things to do.
Concentrate on your studying, take up a hobby, go out with friends and live your life and don’t let anything stop you from having fun.
It seems to me you are a strong young woman, and the decision you took is the right one, don’t weaken and keep your promise to your mom.
There will come a time when you will meet Mr. Right … and you will be a happy soul.
2007-03-20 06:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can't control our feelings or emotions concerning the one we truly love. it's really do hard to forget but it teaches us on how to be strong and how to move on with our lives. we also can't really tell that it always goes wrong, maybe it's just not yet the right time for the both of you to be together.
2007-03-20 04:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by bebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you wioll forget the one you love even me i will not able to answer you coz i love the person and it's good to have wrong cause it teaches for some reason if no wrong no more love at all . it's normal were human . if no wrong no right .
got it.
2007-03-22 00:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by amwid-u:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may go wrong ...but not always. If it goes wrong always one should search within. Either lack of judgment or adjustment can be the reason dear... I wish the next time things go right.
2007-03-20 13:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by vasudev s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to let go of the conscious or unconscious dreams you had for yourself as a couple. Once you regain your dreams, the pain won't completely go away but it will be a dull ache instead of a sharp stabbing pain.
2007-03-20 05:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-20 07:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋