knowing you can never have him as a real partner in life, but you don't want to stop loving him, even if he's so far away and you have very limited contact with him?
2007-03-20 03:39:04 · 11 answers · asked by homealone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What's the point? You know it's never going to happen but you continue to love him because part of you clings to some desperate hope that it might. You're only hurting yourself and holding yourself back for having the happiest most fulfilling life you can.
2007-03-20 03:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can embrace the warm memories you have of that person regardless. Plus, you never know what the future may hold down the line. Make yourself a better person, bc if another special person comes along, you want to be at your best and prepared for whatever may come. Enjoy life and stay positive.
2007-03-20 03:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can continue to love someone as a friend. But, remember, your life is passing you by when you don't talk to other people. Don't be afraid to go out and talk to other guys. You can continue to contact him and stuff, but remember that you have no clue what he is doing out there. If he really likes you, he would understand that during this time, you both need to grow as people. If this relationship is meant to be, then you'll be continually drawn back to him. Let the both of you move on.
2007-03-20 03:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation, and my suggestion to you is to resolve anything you have going with him and move on. I didn't let go of him (in my heart), then I ended up finding a really great guy and getting married to him. The other person was still in my heart, and that caused major problems for my marriage. It also hurt my husband pretty bad. When he realized I loved another man who I knew it was unrealistic to be with, I still remember the look on his face. He knew the guy, and it was really hard to recover from. Thankfully, my husband was forgiving, and helped me to let go of the other guy.
You don't have to stop loving him if you don't want to, but in my opinion...it would be the best thing to do for all future relationships! If you don't you may find yourself comparing every other person to him, and I promise NO OTHER GUY WILL ADD UP! Let him go!
2007-03-20 03:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to love someone but you have to move on, the feeling can stay for a couple of weeks or so but at the end you will get over him.there are a lot of people out there who need your love a lot than that person and there are a lot of people who can love you more than he ever can. so dont let yourself down pliz. a sister can make it out there believe it just think that it was not meant for it to be and there is a mr right out there for youand you will never find him if you gonna sit and mourn for what didnt happen.go out and make something happen for your self sista!
2007-03-20 03:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by lebinah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop loving him and let go.
As you lose him, you should know that you were the one who loves most. Between the two of you, he lost more.
For someday, you could love someone the way you loved him. But he will never be loved again the way that you did.
Besides, somewhere down this road, someone's waiting. Years of dreams just can't be wrong! Arms will open wide, and you will be wanted... you will be loved.
2007-03-20 04:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Pseudosophy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is love, ans it stays. So think of the good times, forget the bad times, but move on. Time will heal, but if you are like me, you will never forget. Just don't obcess on it and be realistic.
You will have other loves in your life. I have fond memories of ex-wifes, former girfirends, deceased relatives and even deceased pets. But life goes on, and it is a true adventure!
2007-03-20 03:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if he/ she treated you in a right or wrong way. If she treated you nice then you can be still like or love her. But if you can't find another way to keep in touch, then you really should move on. Forget that you did like her. But don't forget that you can still be friends until the end...
2007-03-20 03:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S HARD, THAT HAPPEN TO ME LAST YEAR AND I STILL HAVE LOVE FOR HIM NOW. HE WAS SOOO SWEET TO ME ALL THE TIME, HIS LOVE IS WITH ME TODAY, EVEN THOUGH WE DON'T SEE OR HEAR FROM EACH OTHER.
2007-03-20 03:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by beaufordrenee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to get rid of the what ifs in ur mind... in time the longing for him will subside.. until then try to keep urself busy : )
2007-03-20 03:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by SGPearlGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋