What would you think?

Question

my betterhalf cell phone beep for him to check a message last night around 1 or 2am....he said it was a voice message from a bill collector that he did not check earlier...but when I looked on the phone he did not know I saw him check it and he saw that it was a text message that said Hey call me........I got the phone and called back and it was a woman and she hung up....I called from the house phone and she laughed and said oh god...i had the wrong number...( told her I was his wife ) and why was she was texting so early...I asked 1 am in the morning? I got on the computer and text her back from his
screen name to her cell...I pretended to be him, but she kept saying she had the wrong number and to ____ your wife...now we live in MS, but the call was from UT....tell me what you all think...why would she say leave me alone and go ____your wife?

Answer 1

I agree, he probably let her believe he was single and available. When you called her, and informed her you were his wife, she realized her mistake.

I give her credit, she wasn't ready to have a relationship with a married man.

Your husband is scum. He is out playing the field with a wedding ring still on his finger. He apparently is also lying to you.

Chances are, he is unhappy in the marriage and he isn't going to quit his wayward ways. I wish you luck in this one.

Answer 2

Your asking a rhetorical question here. By that, I think you already know the answer.

Your husband has been cheating on you....doesn't matter if it was an Internet affair with him in MS and her in Utah, it's still cheating.

Confront your husband about this if you dare, but remember, you used some rather unscrupulous means to get this information. You looked over his shoulder to read the text message on his cell phone and then you pretended to be him on the computer.

Sweetie, remember this...women know. If in the pit of your stomach--if your sense in your heart of hearts that he''s carrying on with someone else, women know and are usualy correct about 95 percent of the time. We're intuitive that way.

She told you "to leave me alone and go F your wife" because she probably thought you were your husband. Perhaps angry that A) he didn't call her when she wanted him to and that B) you had called her from your house phone.

You did tell her that you were his wife.

You may have had a hand in ending that little relationship without even knowing it. Very often the allure of cheating..the sneaking around and risking getting caught is what keeps two people screwing around. If she's one of those adrenalibe junkies, your calling just may have burst your bubble.

Confront him if you want but be prepared to get reemed for invading his privacy.

But you know that he's been screwing around. You don't need him to confirm it....not now.

Good luck

Answer 3

well it is obvious that your husband knows her
that is why she said go ____ your wife. The poor woman did not know he was married.
Dont be angry with her, your husband said that he was something (single) that he was not.
No one dials a wrong number with a different area code that just happens to have a wrong screen name
(another number) in common
YEAH RIGHT

I got the idea that you now live in MS but used to live in UT where it just so happens thatthis 'wrong number' came from...does that make sense to you?

Watch out when he has to go back (sick mother, business etc)



If this woman did not know him she would have said who in the hell are you when she got the message that 'he' sent from the email.
If you can put a kiddy monitor on the computer that records keystrokes
(netnanny) is a good one
then you can find out exactly where he goes and what he says online

SOrry to say but hubby is looking for love elsewhere


Get a copy of his cell phone records and you will see the proof for yourself!

Start a new bank account and save money

Answer 4

Hey wrong numbers happened all the time. A few years ago this wouldn't even have been an issue. She probably told you (your husband) to leave her alone because you called her, and then your husband (really you) texted her....so leave her alone already. Do you have any other reasons to suspect that your hubby is running around on you? Maybe with someone on your side of the country?

Answer 5

Did you live in Utah before?

I think you have a fine reason to be concerned. The other woman may not be to blame, since she may have been lied to. Be sure to address your husband. Remember the number and check to cell phone bill!

Answer 6

Okay, as a divorced women of a cheating husband....And the "former" mistress of a married man I have got to tell you that he is definitely cheating on you....You need to quit waiting for a Polaroid picture to show you that and look clearly at the evidence you have...He lied to you about the call and she obviously knows him...Men don't usually cheat in the same area that there wife live. They aren't stupid...they think you are.......You just need to see the light and find someone who deserves you...
Best wishes and good luck

Answer 7

I have no clue! Sound all fishy to me sounds like you have a cheater on your hands. I think any person who says you have the wrong number like that mens you have the right number! If you know what I mean. But then again It could just be a wrong number! I know this probly didnt help much but I tried!

Good luck!

Answer 8

It sounds to me like he may have been contacting a past lover or she is trying to make you think that. I'd just talk to him about it and try to trust him until he gives you a reason not to, I don't know if I'd jump to conclusions, just watch it and see what happens, if he was contacting an old lover, he's looking for a way to cheat, which means he'll either be scared by this "close call" or do it again, just be smart about it, don't jump to conclusions, and watch for signs of more.

Answer 9

try to have a talk with your husband- maybe will work..
but keep your eyes wide open...internet is the place that never gets checked, you can say you live on a Moon- doesn't mean that's true..
but i think in this case there is too many coincidences- she knew his number and he had her in his chat room?!

Answer 10

sounds like it was a wrong number on her part but as for your bf he probably thought it was from the real lover he has.
or he could be innocent too and did not know who it was from and if he told you what it said you would not believe he was telling the truth.