and our cast is diffrents how to convence our parents
2007-03-20 03:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
You both are of applicable age to get married according to Indian Matrimonial Statues & caste is no bar for any legal marriage too, hence goes ahead with such a marriage there is no legal bar or legal infringement in such a marriage. Since you have asked this question under the category of Law & Ethics I have given you this reply. Just for your information you can always get married under the Special Marriage Act, 1954 before the marriage officer/registrar. This Act recognizes all inter-religious & inter-caste marriages in India.
2007-03-20 18:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it Ok? legally yes! absolutely no issues. Biologicall again yes, no issues. Socially!!! hmmmm maybe there could be some issues here. Our society isn't considered progressive yet to accept female elder marital relationship (though of late we hear a lot of them). Intercast marriage again the issue is only social.
How to convince your parent in view of the Caste difference Easiest is to have a heart to heart talk with them and provide them with convincing arguments that it is no longer a relevant issue in the modern times. It is other compatibility issues (!!!!) that are more important than the accidental factor called birth (into a particular family). But then you should be strongly convinced yourself first (if it were, I dont see why you had to post this question). So convince yourself that such factors arent too important for your future and it become far more easier for you to handle your parents.
Wish you happy married life ;-)
2007-03-20 03:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by surnell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age aint nothing but a number especially when you both are adults. I know someone who is younger than his wife and they have a very successful marriage. You both are adults and you say you love her I don't see what the problem would be. A four year age gap is nothing. For you to want to marry her she must be a wonderful person. Just make sure you are mentally, financially and physically ready for marriage. Don't leave any baggage on your parents. Don't rush into marriage just for the sake of being married. Marriage is hard work but I don't think you would have a hard time telling your parents if they love and support you. I know because I have been married for 24 years to the same person.
2007-03-20 03:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is not much. The caste difference also should not matter as more Indians are getting qualified and do not go on caste and religion and such things. So with a open mind approach your parents and convince them. Insist for your rights if necessary.
2007-03-20 21:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok, it's only 4 years difference and you're adults, you're not that physically different.
As for "our cast is different" I assume you mean you have different religions or races involved. In either case it can be hard, but still something you can do. Just so long as you each respect eachother's heritage.
One idea is to have 2 smaller weddings, in each faith or tradition, to be able to please everyone involved.
Also I assume from your name that you're Indian, in which case I think it might be called a "love marriage" which do have growing acceptance.
Best of luck.
2007-03-20 03:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are Indian. I believe your only recourse is to talk to your parents first. If they believe she will be a suitable wife and a good mother, I don't see why they would not agree to the marriage.
In theory, you can marry anyone you choose; but doing so against the advice of your family and your cultural traditions may isolate you and your wife, making it difficult for you to stay together.
Talk with your parents, and convince them to support your decision.
2007-03-20 03:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not marry this guy, a minimum of not now. understanding him for 7 months and marrying with all the doubts is a recipe for divorce. 7 months merely isn't adequate time to truly get to appreciate absolutely everyone, not to point somebody you intend to spend something of your existence with. It looks like he has unresolved thoughts for his ex and those might desire to be addressed and dealt with in case you intend to stay in this relationship. provide it time and notice what occurs. in case you bounce into this the way issues are you will stay to sense sorry approximately it in an particularly short quantity of time certain
2016-11-27 00:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its absolutely ok!
as long as you both love each other rest of the things do not matter! as far as caste is concerned convince your parents and carry on!
2007-03-20 21:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Infopath Manager! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love ,the question has not arise.You may go ahead.There are many examples and also they are happy in life.
2007-03-20 03:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by klyan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "relationships" catagory might be more helpful for you. Good luck anyway!
2007-03-20 03:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by panthrchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋