What to do when you are completely hopeless and the only option available to you is suicide?

Answer 1

Firstly, GET HELP! Find someone to talk to. Phone lifeline or such like, go to the nearest hospital and book yourself in, find a person you can talk to. Please go right now and do this!

Secondly, suicide is never the only option. No matter how bad things may be, there will always be somebody who can help you if you let them.

Thirdly, you will leave behind family and friends who will mourn you and their lives will be torn apart - as mine was when my brother suicided.

Life can be horrible sometimes - I know this from personal experience. But there are happy times. I don't know you or your situation, but please know that I care: you are a fellow person and deserve love.

Blessings, Gypsy Queen

Answer 2

You may THINK you are completely hopeless but your only option CAN NOT be suicide. How can suicide be your only option when there is a better option called "living"?, surviving? and "seeing what happens"?, and "what if i make it through"?, "what if there are people out there who went through what i did and made it?". I've heard this, and believe it's true, but the first step is to know that you are not alone in this. However desperate your case maybe, however depressing, however discouraging, people GO through this s-hit, and they survive. The difference between them and those who died is that they didn't give in. Not because they were stronger, or had things going for them, or anything like that; but because they had the humility of knowing that they shouldn't be on top of their game all the time; that "$hit happens", that "this life, it ain't easy" and if they made it through this one, there would be flowers, and moons, and smiles, and great ******** stories to tell. I'm one of those people. So take courage. There is no guarantee in life, except the promise of a new day (another morning; one more minute).

Answer 3

Suicide is a permanent solution, to a temporary problem.

Its easy for me to say, never loose hope, without understanding ur circumstances. But trust me, winning the battle of life is more important, than other petty things. Winning over ur own emotions is the most important thing.

When god gives trouble, he also gives courage to fight that. So, find ur courage within urself. Depend on urself, trust urself and build urself up in ur own eyes.

Change urself, change ur own perspective, then things around u will definitely change.

Always remember, nurture the life god has given u. Also, u r not suffering from any disease or disability, like some people do and they wish to have a healthy life, throughout there life. So, cherish and love urself that u r better than some people.

Answer 4

Suicide is not the only option available. Although you may feel that it is.. and perhaps that may be normal. But don't let the thought of suicide keep you away from getting better, moving on with your life, seeking help (in one or more ways).. Once you focus on the fact that suicide is NOT the only option..you'll realize that there are many doors for you to open, many sights for you to see, many stories for you to hear and many encounters with great people to experience. So cheer up... life goes on... with you in it.. FEEL BETTER AND GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

First, get physically healthy. See a doctor & spill it all out. There are medications that can help take the fog of hopelessness away, enough so that you can think clearly.

Then, gently, but honestly, assess your reality. Are there things in your current situation that you can change to make it into the life you want to have? If not, start over & recreate your life how you want it to be (being honest & responsible along the way, so as not to leave yourself with baggage & regrets)

Answer 6

You always have another option! ALWAYS!! Choose to live. What you are going through right now won't last forever. Soon, it will be over and your life will change for the better. You have a choice to look forward and live or to give up. Never give up. Life is worth living! Life changes all the time and you can do things to make your life better and easier to handle. Choose life and a future. Don't hurt your family and friends by taking your life. It may the easy way out for you, but they will have to live with your death and that will ruin some people. It's not fair to the people you love! Live!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Well clearly you have found at least one other option by writing this question. That is if you're speaking for yourself.

If you are speaking for yourself then you have found an option and therefore there is reason to believe that there are others and there are.

Think this thing out and realize that there are a lot of people that care what you do and would be sorry that you didn't take the time to let them help.

Answer 8

Hi dear friend think life has played a very tough game.
Sit down, think nothing, take a couple of deep breathes. Take time to speak wit ya dear one or else sit in a lonely place where u have nbo disturbances and speak to yourself. Think where have u gone wrong and wat r the possibilities to rectify it. Try to think positive(Do understand it is hard at this part of time).
Let me tell u if u think suicide is the only available option many of us in tis world would opt only for that even if they ave man y other. Don think to end ya life, you r born to do something which others cannot do.
"NOTHING IS LATE TILL YOU DIE & IF YOU ARE UNABLE TO A PARTICULAR TASK NOBODY CAN DO THAT".

Answer 9

there is nothing like NO HOPE. There has to be some way.
When there is a mental block it may SEEM that there is no hope. But it is NOT SO.
Thinking twice will always help.
If unable to arrive at a solution there is help available everywhere. There are so many organisations who can guide us and SHOW HOPE.
Suicide is cowardice.

Answer 10

Suicide is NEVER an option. If things are that bad, they can only get better.