I have been indecise about a choice for about one year, I can't decide where to go ....Each time, I try to make a step forward, things seem illogic, I retracted ...I don't know what I want anymore ...!! I would like to stay neutral, but I caught myself still searching for a solution again ...What can I do to stop it, or what can help make a choice ..!! Please, help, ..!! I don't know how to solve that and it's painful..!!
2007-03-20 02:21:19 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
As stupid as it seems, sit down with a pad of paper and write down what you know to be the facts of the situation. Brainstorm your possible choices of actions, then list what you expect to be the consequences of each action. Try and remove yourself from the situation so you can consider from a viewpoint of action and results of that action.
Most of all, try to remember that while it's scary to lose something and it may be painful at first, in time you will feel liberated.
You need to search your feelings and decide how this situation makes you feel and if you are unhappy enough to continue without change, or if your dissatisfaction is a temporary thing.
2007-03-20 02:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by LuckyDucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we push ourselves to make a decision when the right answer hasn't presented itself yet. Can you decide to not decide until the option feels right?
2007-03-20 09:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋