and who was it?
2007-03-20 02:15:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think I have ever hated anyone. I might have hated something that they had done and then I would have told them that to thier face but to hate someone is a pretty powerful thing to feel. I dislike people intensly sometimes but hate no. Hate is the most destructive of feelings and always will make you feel twisted it just turns in on itself. If you are angry or hurt then express it to the persons face it feels so much better than just hitting out in anger!!!! I hope you have not been so hurt by someone that it has festered inside you until you feel the need to hate. You probabley do not want to aggree with me but to hate is really to hurt yourself. Please do take care and if you are really hurting I am so sorry. Please do take care of yourself.
2007-03-20 11:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Loobyloo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Define hate, when most people say they hate someone they have a dislike for that person at that particular moment.
Dislike is a state of mind,hate is a raw emotion that thankfully most won't truely experience.
Yes you dislike that person at a moment in time,but that view does'nt last or is forgotten.
Unfortunately hate does'nt, if you truely hate someone you will have those feelings towards them forever.
I can honestly say i hate someone,and everyday for 18mnths thoughts of what i will do to him if i ever bump into him cross my mind.
18 mnths ago my 10yr old daughter was very upset,and after alot of tears and coaxing we found out why.
A 68yr old family friend who we had known for 10yrs,had been abusing her and had raped her over a 5wk period.
It took over a year to go to court,unfortunately to everybodies astonishment he got off.
Not even the police can explain how as her evedence was so good,but he walked.
As i left the courtroom i went upto him in the dock and told him i hated him and i would see him in hell after i kill him.
My biggest fear is that i meant it and still do,part of me hopes that i never bump into him as i won't be able to control my actions.The other wishes that i do,so i can see the fear in his eyes just like what my daughter would have done when he raped her.
And then with no mercy give him the most painful death that i have been imagining since November 10th 2006.( the day he walked free)
This is true hatred and i hope nobody has to feel this way,because it does consume you.
2007-03-20 13:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I have ever told someone that I hated them. I might of said I'm displeased...or I'm not very happy with you.
But never 'i hate you!'
There was 2 weeks ago, the day after my husband had buried his parents, when their neighbor came over and offered to buy the land from us, and I totally had to turn my face away from them, Just because I thought it was totally rude to ask the day after. They hadn't even been in the ground, 24 hours, and they were already hitting my husband up for the land. It was wrong, but I bit my tongue just for my husband and children's sake. Just the type of person I am.
2007-03-20 03:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by smurfie45 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I said this a month ago to a friend of mine and i paid dearly for it because i said it out of anger and really meant that i hate their ways not them but it came across wrong so i apologized and will really try hard not to say those hurtful words to anyone again especially to the people i care about.
2007-03-20 02:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last time i told someone i hated them [ and the only time] was when i worked in SA in a pharmacy. A kettle of boiling water had spilled over my legs and burnt me terribly. My boss told me should i go home the time out would come out of my leave as we did not get sick leave. I resigned there and then and told him what i thought of him. Evil sod.:(
2007-03-20 02:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last time I told someone I hated them was my ex-husband just a few months ago, and I meant it.
2007-03-20 02:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there well the last time i said i hated someone to there face was my bf coz we were argueing i didnt mean it of course
2007-03-20 02:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was actually a friend of mine. We were down the pub and we were having a rather heated discussion when he accused my wife of being a "Nazi b**ch". (my wife is Austrian) I struck with a good uppercut and he fell to the floor. I then stood over him and said i hate you; you son of a b**ch
2007-03-20 02:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bertie D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never. Hatred of a personal kind is a wasted emotion
2007-03-20 10:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last Saturday. It was a couple of my daughter's friends. They're a pyss taking load of tw@ts.
2007-03-20 02:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Loxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋