People are always asking me what to do in their relationships and Im not in one. The more I hear the less I want to get back into one!!
2007-03-20 02:14:17 · 11 answers · asked by bigbrother 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you have the kind of personality that attracts ppl, you seem like a good and loyal person, someone who is smart down to earth and who cares.
2007-03-20 02:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who i like to call my "therapist" when it comes to relationships & things. I do this because he is always there for me and willing to help me. Maybe people think this about you for somewhat the same reason. If you've been willing to give people advice previously and you were helpful, people are just going to immediately turn to you.
Maybe just start letting people know you dont have the experience or you dont have the knowledge at this point to help them out and You're not the best person to come to.
2007-03-20 09:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sheena B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could take this as a compliment i.e. they really value your opinion - i get a lot of people doing this to me so i know how much of a burden it can sometimes be especially if you have other things on your mind/your own problems. Make sure they are giving you time to speak about your problems or anything else you feel like talking to otherwise they are not really your mates as it is a two way street!
2007-03-20 09:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they're girls, they probably want a guys opinion on what guys are thinking. And if they're guys, they probably want an unbiased male opinion from someone who isn't going to give advice on the experience he's having. If it really is annoying you, you should just say, "I really don't know. Why don't you talk it out with your significant other if it's bothering you so much? They are the source, after all."
2007-03-20 09:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by shere143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you must be easy to talk to. My son has the same problem...then he becomes REALLY GREAT friends with the girls..thus not able to ask them out! its a curse.. ha ha ha
(feel blessed that your friends feel they can trust you and your advice)
2007-03-20 09:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Joannie W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
consider urself blessed folks respect u enuff to ask for ur opinion but dont let them use u as a doormat for the issues they have
2007-03-20 09:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must just have that special gift of knowing how to talk to someone when they need good advice.
2007-03-20 09:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it wrong. The think of you as 'the rapist'. It's a simple spelling snafu.
2007-03-20 09:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably ask you cause you give really good advice.
2007-03-20 09:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
'Cause you react like a therapist .-
2007-03-20 09:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋