Am very close to my girlfriend mother just as friends but she is taking our normal friendship too far. she told me scretly that we should make sex together and i told her that i will think over it cause i dont know how to refuse her she has been very good to me and now am confused what should i do'????????
2007-03-20 02:07:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lets put it this way , been there done that, my mom slept with several guys I slept with, if you don't want to lose the girl forever don't do it, just say I don't think of you that way. I think that is the sorriest thing a mother could do to her daughter & that a guy could do to someone he supposedly cares about. Why would you even entertain the notion? She will never forgive you & then you've crossed from a decent human being to someone who no-one should ever trust. Tell her to leave you alone or you will tell her daughter, having a recorder handy when you do it wouldn't hurt anything cause if she's that sorry shes not to sorry to lie to her daughter on you. Also it could just be a test her daughter had her give you,you never know.
2007-03-20 02:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is your girlfriends mother, what are you thinking? what if you thinking? First your girlfriend will never forgive you, second, if she is trying to pressure you into this then you should not do it. It doesn't sound like it will end there. She will hold this over your head for something more or it could be her way of testing your loyalty to her daughter so if you do agree to have sex with her then you could be setting yourself up for more harm than you know. I would say don't do it, besides that this will change everything.
2007-03-20 02:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by casady96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told her you would think it over?? That was a dumb mistake.. You need to tell your girlfriend.. I realize that you guys get along but you shouldn't cross that line.. Sounds like your girl's mom is a slut who doesn't respect her daughter.. You need to let that **** go.... Unless, you don't care about your girlfriend and her feelings.. Which, if that's the case, go ahead, screw her mom! What do you look like so that I can look out for you on the Springer Show??
2007-03-20 02:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely do not have sex with your girlfriend's mother. What a horrible thing to even consider.
You should tell her you are flattered, and that because her daughter means so very much to you, that you simply can not cross that line.
2007-03-20 02:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by picture . . . perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she worth losing ur girlfriend over? Think about what will happen after u do the deed. How would u feel if ur girl did this with ur family member? Just the fact that she asked u this says alot about her character.
2007-03-20 04:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ursula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely DON'T do it. First of all, that's just wrong. She obviously doesn't care about her daughter's feelings because she's hitting on her boyfriend! That's not a healthy relationship and you can really screw everything up. Tell her you don't feel comfortable with the whole idea of it and if she keeps harassing you, avoid her. If this whole ridiculous event keeps up, I would let your girlfriend know.
2007-03-20 02:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by shere143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel her you love her daughter and that you can't have sex with her because it's wrong. this woman has a problem, and you need to stay away from her unless your girlfriend is also in the same room. do not be alone with the mom.
2007-03-20 02:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant have sex with your girlfriend's mother--it is immoral. the only reason why that should happpen would be that your gf cheats on you and then u have sex with her mother as payback.
you should have never said that you would think about having sex with her and ytou should always try to create that seperation from any possiblt sexual relations
2007-03-20 02:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not too mature, but I guess you realize how unnormal this situation is. Just tell her that you are not interested and that you love her daughter too much to do this. And just try to avoid staying too much around her when there's no one there but you 2.
2007-03-20 02:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important part of being human is to know what they should and should not do. Boldly say 'no' when you want to say no, boldly say 'yes' when you want to say yes. What is so hard in being honest to yourself? She has been very good to you doesn't mean that she can force herself to you. Unless you are hesitating because evil things sounds sweet in your ears?
2007-03-20 02:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋